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Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 15:28 #44046

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Due to some serious breaches in Tzniyus that I am not at liberty to divulge, and after consultation with experts, it has been decided that the men and women's forums on GYE will now be completely separate. Men will not be allowed access to the women's forum, and women will not be allowed access to the men's forum.

We would also like to re-iterate that posting e-mail addresses and telephone numbers is forbidden on the forum. Instead, PM's should be used (between each gender separately).

We apologize for the inconvenience - and just so that no one should get wrong ideas, let me state that it has nothing to do with our dear women members, 7Up, Habib, Trying, Letakein and theOne.
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 15:46 #44050

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Hate to sound Yeshivish here but...YYYYYEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 17:32 #44090

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I back Guard fully, although i too am heartbroken.

For now, I will remain with my girls on the womens side. You guys have plenty of very special people to help you.
I will miss you all tremendously.
I have no words to thank each and every one of you for all you have given me.
I honestly believe that my personal struggle would have failed without you amazing men who helped me step by step.

I will probably not be reading the mens side either - too hard not to reply!
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Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 17:35 #44093

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Future PMs and emails may be sent via Guard


Waddayamean? They can still PM you.
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 17:39 #44095

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guardureyes wrote on 10 Jan 2010 17:35:


Future PMs and emails may be sent via Guard


Waddayamean? They can still PM you.


no Guard. Im giving up moderator status and am with my girls
Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 17:47 #44099

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7Up wrote on 10 Jan 2010 17:39:

guardureyes wrote on 10 Jan 2010 17:35:


Future PMs and emails may be sent via Guard


Waddayamean? They can still PM you.


no Guard. Im giving up moderator status and am with my girls


Not so simple - Guard has to accept your resignation before your status can change.
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 17:56 #44102

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Yesomim hayinu Vain Av.....Emosainu Kialmanos. :'(

Hey Kollel Guy, you don't look so yeshivish with the fat dude from South Park!! Cartmin that's his name.

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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 10 Jan 2010 23:14 #44213

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shemirateinayim wrote on 10 Jan 2010 17:56:

Yesomim hayinu Vain Av.....Emosainu Kialmanus.

Hey Kollel Guy, you don't look so yeshivish with the fat dude from South Park!! Cartmin that's his name.l
Whaddya mean "not yeshivish"??!!
How do you tell a yeshiva bochur from a yeshivishe bochur?
The yeshiva bochur walks into a hotel room, puts down his suitcase and turns on the TV.
The yeshivishe bochur turns on the TV before putting down the suitcase.
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 11 Jan 2010 15:58 #44397

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NEBACH

I think that says enough, we should wish the 'vaad harabanim leinyanei ________everything we do wrong________"  more hatzlacha. If only they heard you say that, wow, the'll throw you into a burning dumpster (a plastic one of coarse)

Anyone have any idea why on earth those idiots install plastic dumpsters in meah shearim. Hello a little thought process goes a long way!!  Where gonna burn them before the years end! And the idiot who light it won't pay, so cmon think metal
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 11 Jan 2010 23:46 #44607

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I adding unneeded agreement with Guard on this. whether or not it's "Yeshivish" it's the the right thing to do. We know that we need many fences. The more the marrier.
זכרני נא, זכרני נא, וחזקני נא אך הפעם הזה, הפעם הזה, האלקים, ואנקמה נקם אחת משתי עיני, מפלשתים
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 12 Jan 2010 04:42 #44670

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hey but if you just smashed your screen, how did you type that  ??? ??? ??? ???

wow nice pic... can you still read this? hmm


can we pick a different subject.  Who hates obama?


why would you hate him, I can see you not liking what he does, or his skin color. But what did he actually DO to you?
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 12 Jan 2010 05:46 #44689

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hey with all my stupid posts, ie the one's with no real tochen, i finnaly became a full member
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 12 Jan 2010 16:35 #44813

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shemirateinayim wrote on 12 Jan 2010 05:46:

hey with all my stupid posts, ie the one's with no real tochen, i finnaly became a full member


Actually, what you just wrote is quite clever! 
Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 12 Jan 2010 19:04 #44888

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it's a sad world we live in, where our cure for internet addiction is merely socializing.  Video games also destroy children's social lives.... like mine, oh yeh then came p___ addcition to fill-in the cracks!

so nu, whatzup?
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Re: Men and Women's forums are now seperate 12 Jan 2010 22:35 #45026

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I agree to the separation. I was very uncomfortable having women on the forum although I am certain that they meant well but it is not proper that the 2 genders should converse with each other. the stiepler wouldn't take kvitlach from women it had to be written from a man in the 3rd person. Now, we arent at his level but in this forum when we are trying to purify ourselves we should bend backwards to keep clean. Even moderators should be separate. thank you
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