hollyari wrote on 07 Aug 2025 22:28:

Same here. Lol. 

Ask Chaim@guardyoureyes.com whether it is for you. He knows about Fortify because the Flight to Freedom program has videos from them. Have you done the whole Flight to Freedom program already that you are looking elsewhere?

yosefthetzadik wrote on 30 Jul 2025 18:30:

You know why I’m lucky?

I’m looking at my 90-day chart and I’m actually excited.

I started with “Derech HaMesilah” (just 24 hours), then leveled up to “Chazak Chazak” (3 days), then “HaKovesh Es Yitzro” (7 days), then “Eved Hashem” (14 days)… and now?

Now is when it’s the hardest.

That early burst of energy is gone, and I’m not yet far enough along for the momentum to carry me. I need to fight hard for the next 14 days to reach the next level — and that’s a real avodah.

But me? I’m lucky.

I have a breakpoint.

8/18/2025.

26 days. Yosef Hatzadik.

10 days from now.

IY”H, I’ll see you there. Let’s go.

Also — still learning how this platform works.

When I quoted your post, I suddenly saw two other posts I had missed before:

“Obviously just gaslighting you. Of course Holy Ari can make it!!!”
“Can he though?”

If anyone knows how to find these “hidden” posts — please let me know! Who knows what other gold I’ve been missing…

After a while it doesn't tell you that a post wasn't read and it won't have the green number next to the thread. You can go back in time on the threads to the last time you were on the forum and then you won't miss anything. You can also press the subscribe button at the bottom of your thread and you will get an email every time there is a new post on your thread.

Thank you Yitzchokm, it was actually a spoiler message. 
I already learned how to read and write it.

Not to sound like a broken record but, although there's work needed to get you to your goal, as PY mentioned, reaching out to others has helped many reach goals and remain clean. Not just a single mentor. Friends, friends, and friends.....

Hatzlacha with all!

Muttel

Zonked…

I got home really late last night and I’m extremely tired.

It’s one of those gray Mondays. I’ve got 5 days’ worth of work to tackle today, and it’s already 2 PM. I’m still pacing around, trying to figure out what to prioritize.

Feeling sick and tired, alone in my office—not the best place to be. Honestly, I’ve been on the edge of falling too many times today…

Thank you, Muttel, for offering a helping hand. But it’s been over an hour since I messaged you with no response. (No offense—love and respect you! Just sharing my mood here.)

It’s not easy. Who ever said it would be?

But....
GYE only gives one chance a day. "I’m still on track" and I’m staying on track.

If you are having a difficult time you can try reaching out to a different mentor until Muttel responds.

You could also check out the chat feature which allows real time communication to members who are online and are available.

The chat feature will become available after 30 days since you signed up.

Real time chat would be great! 
I guess I'll wait patiently! In the meantime, I watched some f2f videos.. Lot's of info in there.. 

Feel free to reach out,  email in my signature.

hollyari wrote on 11 Aug 2025 18:14:

I'm sorry for my lack of response!! I've edited my profile now - my texts arent working. 
I've PM'd you but dont know if you see them. Please feel free to email me and we can set up a time to talk.

Looking foward!

Not sure this will work for you but when I'm in that situation I create a spreadsheet with all the things I have to do and then populate those tasks with subtasks in another and another column with comments. And then I really brain dump in the comments. It helps transfer the mind load. Also don't go online

How does it feel day 19 my friend Holy Ari?!?

I'm starting to fear that I might lose this bet...

Should I make another?