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TOPIC: reaching a road block 59 Views
reaching a road block 10 Jan 2025 18:42 #428874
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Im in an interesting situation currently, was wondering if anyone could relate or have any insight. In the past 10 years I have almost never been able to resist the temptation to look at p when i had access. B"H for my first time ever, I am two months clean (with one slip up in the middle) of p, and I have been strong in situations that i have fallen in the past. The issue I am having now, though, is that my struggle with m is still very prevalent. Right now it is a daily struggle. I am not married yet, but to the best of my knowledge, it is less problematic to enter the world of shidduchim while struggling with m than it is with p. Being that i feel less urgency regarding this issue, i am having a much harder time overcoming it.
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Re: reaching a road block 10 Jan 2025 19:34 #428875
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mosh1achnow wrote on 10 Jan 2025 18:42:
Im in an interesting situation currently, was wondering if anyone could relate or have any insight. In the past 10 years I have almost never been able to resist the temptation to look at p when i had access. B"H for my first time ever, I am two months clean (with one slip up in the middle) of p, and I have been strong in situations that i have fallen in the past. The issue I am having now, though, is that my struggle with m is still very prevalent. Right now it is a daily struggle. I am not married yet, but to the best of my knowledge, it is less problematic to enter the world of shidduchim while struggling with m than it is with p. Being that i feel less urgency regarding this issue, i am having a much harder time overcoming it. Any advice is very appreciated Warning: Spoiler!Shalom Brother, Yaasher Koach on you strides in not looking at p. That is incredible strength to resist even when you had access. Without getting into a comparison of m vs p, behaviors of lust and self-pleasure would be a challenge in marriage that it would behoove you to work on now and not push it off. Continues Hatzlacha and Kol Tov |
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Re: reaching a road block 10 Jan 2025 19:42 #428876
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BenHashemBH wrote on 10 Jan 2025 19:34:
mosh1achnow wrote on 10 Jan 2025 18:42: Im in an interesting situation currently, was wondering if anyone could relate or have any insight. In the past 10 years I have almost never been able to resist the temptation to look at p when i had access. B"H for my first time ever, I am two months clean (with one slip up in the middle) of p, and I have been strong in situations that i have fallen in the past. The issue I am having now, though, is that my struggle with m is still very prevalent. Right now it is a daily struggle. I am not married yet, but to the best of my knowledge, it is less problematic to enter the world of shidduchim while struggling with m than it is with p. Being that i feel less urgency regarding this issue, i am having a much harder time overcoming it. Any advice is very appreciated Warning: Spoiler!Shalom Brother, Yaasher Koach on you strides in not looking at p. That is incredible strength to resist even when you had access. Without getting into a comparison of m vs p, behaviors of lust and self-pleasure would be a challenge in marriage that it would behoove you to work on now and not push it off. Continues Hatzlacha and Kol Tov I can only concur with these wise words. Getting rid of lust will help you in the future to have a true LOVE relationship and not a lust relationship. The love relationship is awesome, the lust one, not so much 
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