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Re: HERE WE GO - AGAIN....... 03 Jan 2024 20:34 #406314

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synonym with vey
Nothing good grows in the dark. 

Re: HERE WE GO - AGAIN....... 03 Jan 2024 20:42 #406317

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iyh2023 wrote on 03 Jan 2024 17:24:
Mariam Websters word of the day: OISH

That sucks...I'm sorry.

(BTW Mariam Websters dictionary doesn't have the word Oish)
You can win the fight, but I'll have to live with the loser.

Any excuse you use for yourself, you must be willing to use for your wife.

Not Always can I understand others, but I can always respect their wishes.

You're human, it's okay.

One half of the world cannot understand the pleasures of the other.

Re: HERE WE GO - AGAIN....... 03 Jan 2024 20:51 #406320

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Heeling wrote on 03 Jan 2024 20:42:

iyh2023 wrote on 03 Jan 2024 17:24:
Mariam Websters word of the day: OISH

That sucks...I'm sorry.

(BTW Mariam Websters dictionary doesn't have the word Oish)

Sheesh....

Re: HERE WE GO - AGAIN....... 10 Jan 2024 20:06 #406806

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Some times its cold, and some times its hot,
Some times its light, and some times not.

This world is a book, of many pages,
Where everyone traverses, many stages.

Some of them are cold, dark and gray,
When its hard to find the spark, the light, the ray.

Treading hot water, about to go under,
​Amidst rainstorms and gray clouds, lightning and thunder.

Watching other ships, sail with great ease,
While our hopes and dreams, vanish in the breeze. 

Its at this moment, that we must give heed,
to the little spark, the thirsty seed.

That resides in each of us, ready to grow,
Given the proper nutrients, it will shine and glow.

Like a "new book scent", its pages unbent, 
You can reach great heights, even from the lowest descent.

Set your eyes on the prize, it is within your reach, 
You can do it, no matter what they preach.

The day will come, when everything will "shtim",
When we accept, that everything is from Him.

The light at the end is shining bright,
​Turn your boat around, and set your self right.

This aint the final scene, the curtain wont drop,
The act isnt up, do not stop.

Let the sun shine, greet the light with an open heart,
Youre a good person, its never to late to start!!!!!
  

  
Last Edit: 11 Jan 2024 16:02 by iyh2023.

Re: HERE WE GO - AGAIN....... 22 Feb 2024 15:36 #408994

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Does any one know how to get to the GYE+ videos, when i try, it says i have to log in, even though i already am?

Re: HERE WE GO - AGAIN....... 22 Feb 2024 16:10 #408997

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iyh2023 wrote on 22 Feb 2024 15:36:
Does any one know how to get to the GYE+ videos, when i try, it says i have to log in, even though i already am?

log in again. Same thing happens to me
"Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm" - Winston Churchill

Curiosity kills the count

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Re: HERE WE GO - AGAIN....... 22 Feb 2024 16:17 #408998

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I tried multiple times and i get this:  Content locked, To unlock you'll need to log in

Re: HERE WE GO - AGAIN....... 22 Feb 2024 16:19 #409000

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ainshumyeiush wrote on 22 Feb 2024 16:10:

iyh2023 wrote on 22 Feb 2024 15:36:
Does any one know how to get to the GYE+ videos, when i try, it says i have to log in, even though i already am?

log in again. Same thing happens to me

Login with your regular GYE email and password even though you are logged into the regular GYE.
You can win the fight, but I'll have to live with the loser.

Any excuse you use for yourself, you must be willing to use for your wife.

Not Always can I understand others, but I can always respect their wishes.

You're human, it's okay.

One half of the world cannot understand the pleasures of the other.

Re: HERE WE GO - AGAIN....... 22 Feb 2024 16:36 #409002

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If the advice posted doesn't work, send an email to GYE and they will fix it for you.

Re: HERE WE GO - AGAIN....... 01 Mar 2024 16:09 #409411

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I know this is totally off topic, but its the only place i feel safe enough (and anonymous enough) to ask; I've been vaping for a long while now, like 6 years on and off, and the last three years there wasn't a day i didn't vape, besides Shabbos and y't, i need to stop, i want to stop, but i cant, if you have any rescores or tips, please please please let me know, its gotten to a point where i need help, professional help.      

Re: HERE WE GO - AGAIN....... 01 Mar 2024 16:23 #409412

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iyh2023 wrote on 01 Mar 2024 16:09:
I know this is totally off topic, but its the only place i feel safe enough (and anonymous enough) to ask; I've been vaping for a long while now, like 6 years on and off, and the last three years there wasn't a day i didn't vape, besides Shabbos and y't, i need to stop, i want to stop, but i cant, if you have any rescores or tips, please please please let me know, its gotten to a point where i need help, professional help.      

why would you stop!?
it helps control lust,
they say vaping can cause, loss of libido and slower arousal times.
thats why we dont vape on שבת 
לכבוד שבת קודש ומצות עונה
 LOVE שבת קודש

Re: HERE WE GO - AGAIN....... 01 Mar 2024 16:30 #409413

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I want to stop cuz my wife hates it and its not healthy. Primarily the later.
Its not doing a great job at controlling my lust, although i don't know what it would be like without the vape, I'm kind of interested to find out.  

Re: HERE WE GO - AGAIN....... 03 Mar 2024 06:05 #409443

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cande wrote on 01 Mar 2024 16:23:

iyh2023 wrote on 01 Mar 2024 16:09:
I know this is totally off topic, but its the only place i feel safe enough (and anonymous enough) to ask; I've been vaping for a long while now, like 6 years on and off, and the last three years there wasn't a day i didn't vape, besides Shabbos and y't, i need to stop, i want to stop, but i cant, if you have any rescores or tips, please please please let me know, its gotten to a point where i need help, professional help.      

why would you stop!?
it helps control lust,
they say vaping can cause, loss of libido and slower arousal times.
thats why we dont vape on שבת 
לכבוד שבת קודש ומצות עונה
 LOVE שבת קודש

To quote an amazing quote I just read. 
"not everything you read online is true"
            Abe Lincoln
Nothing good grows in the dark. 

Re: HERE WE GO - AGAIN....... 03 Mar 2024 15:09 #409462

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I was addicted to the forum at one point and I used the F2F program to overcome it. I went through the program from the beginning a second time and substituted social media for porn wherever porn was mentioned and I substituted connection for the red heart. It was ironic but it worked. I suggest that you do the same, only substitute vaping for porn. The opposite of addiction is connection, not sobriety, so it should work. You should do all the exercises as well.
Last Edit: 03 Mar 2024 15:25 by yitzchokm.

Re: HERE WE GO - AGAIN....... 03 Mar 2024 15:26 #409464

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yitzchokm wrote on 03 Mar 2024 15:09:
I was addicted to the forum at one point and I used the F2F program to overcome it. I went through the program from the beginning a second time and substituted social media for porn wherever porn was mentioned and I substituted connection for the red heart. It was ironic but it worked. I suggest that you try the same, only substitute vaping for porn. You should do all the exercises as well.

Sounds like your addicted to the F2F program maybe you should do it a 3rd time to quit that
P.S. Make sure you do all the exercises 
"Excuses are the tools of incompetence" -My Friends Friend. 

"Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change" -Milton H. Erickson
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