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Urges on Yom Kippur? 05 Oct 2022 23:51 #386282

To Yosef Hatzaddik
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Is it normal to get urges on Yom Kippur? I found it much easier to say no but I ended up falling right after it.

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Re: Urges on Yom Kippur? 06 Oct 2022 10:33 #386289

frank.lee Current streak: 449 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 689 Karma: 21	I've read here that it is common. Need to be prepared, before and after spiritual and emotional high days, to try not to fall.

Re: Urges on Yom Kippur? 06 Oct 2022 11:29 #386290

Dailybattle Current streak: 2 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 17 Karma: 1	I also had a very meaningful YK and sincerely davened saying that I would not do P&M again and fell this morning. Feel terrible and hope others are able to be stronger than I was

Re: Urges on Yom Kippur? 06 Oct 2022 13:32 #386292

hershy 10952 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 2 Karma: 0	After being on a high spiritual level, one can fall very hard. My experience...

Re: Urges on Yom Kippur? 06 Oct 2022 23:40 #386326

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I often fell on a spiritual high, like aseres yeme teshuva etc. Get up and move on, don't dwell on it. If Yom Kippur makes you feel anxious. that could of also spiralled a fall.

"The pain after giving in is so much greater than the pain of not giving in"

My Thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/361746-Striving-for-Excellence
Believe in yourself: guardyoureyes.com/forum/15-The-Torah-amp-Chizuk-Approach/357766-Bunch-of-Quotes-I-Gained-from-over-the-years

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Re: Urges on Yom Kippur? 07 Oct 2022 00:59 #386332

wilnevergiveup Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1159 Karma: 113	Some say it's a sign of white-knuckling.
	Check out My Thread and The Truth (עשה רצונו כרצונך (אבות,ב:ד Feel free to email me wilnevergiveupgye@gmail.com

Re: Urges on Yom Kippur? 07 Oct 2022 02:05 #386335

To Yosef Hatzaddik
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What's white knuckling? First time hearing of it.

Last Edit: 07 Oct 2022 02:05 by To Yosef Hatzaddik.

Re: Urges on Yom Kippur? 07 May 2023 23:24 #395449

frank.lee Current streak: 449 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 689 Karma: 21	Maybe this is a good way to explain simply: working harder instead of working smarter. So the goal is to be happy, composed, tranquil and calm, and focusing on other things in life as opposed to high strung and stressed out, focused on not thinking about certain things, not fantasizing, not falling.

Re: Urges on Yom Kippur? 08 May 2023 11:22 #395462

Hashem Help Me Current streak: 2918 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 4058	Maybe this is a good way to explain simply: working harder instead of working smarter. So the goal is to be happy, composed, tranquil and calm, and focusing on other things in life as opposed to high strung and stressed out, focused on not thinking about certain things, not fantasizing, not falling.Very true.
	Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE