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What would you say? 16 Feb 2022 04:19 #377476

bisyata dishmaya Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 167 Karma: 8	What would you tell someone for chizuk who was clean for over a year fell clean for over 90 days twice and had their last fall 2 weeks ago and somehow managed to pick themselves up but he's still feeling down?
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Re: What would you say? 16 Feb 2022 05:17 #377479

joe770 Current streak: 8 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 10 Karma: 1	I'm not sure what to tell you to give you chizuk, but I would like to share my sincere reaction. "Wow you're amazing!! be proud of yourself because Hashem definitely is".
	Last Edit: 16 Feb 2022 05:18 by joe770.

Re: What would you say? 16 Feb 2022 07:53 #377482

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I would tell him to find a large mirror, straighten out your hair/peyos, put on a very serious face and look at the guy you see there and tell him, "You are awesome!"

Then say "Hey! You are an awesome guy!"

Then say "Hey there! Yes you, I mean you! You are the most awesomest guy that exists in the whole entire world"
Then you can turn that serious face into a grin.

At the end of the day, you are awesome, but we tend to focus on the negative instead of the positive. Create for yourself some positive energy and you be"H find much success.

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Last Edit: 16 Feb 2022 12:43 by wilnevergiveup.

Re: What would you say? 16 Feb 2022 12:32 #377484

Hashem Help Me Current streak: 2918 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 4058	Ditto
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Re: What would you say? 16 Feb 2022 13:30 #377489

joetyh Current streak: 6 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 182 Karma: 20	Are you human? Yes!!! (Sorry if not..) so yes challenges come and we don’t always beat them but I want you to look back at the amount of fall percentage you had before you got a hold of yourself and now… how can you be down?????? you’re a TZADIK YESOD OILAM!!!!!!!! Keep it up!!!!!! (maybe share your story if you feel comfortable to help the oilam out….)
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Re: What would you say? 16 Feb 2022 16:12 #377491

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8280 Karma: 427	bisyata dishmaya wrote on 16 Feb 2022 04:19: What would you tell someone for chizuk who was clean for over a year fell clean for over 90 days twice and had their last fall 2 weeks ago and somehow managed to pick themselves up but he's still feeling down? I would give him a hug and say welcome to the club Warning: Spoiler! Where’s the hug emoji. Who removed it??
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