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General Help 09 Aug 2020 20:08 #353524

  • seinayim
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I am making my way through the guard your eyes handbook. There are a lot of resources which are not linked, along with references to 'coming soon'. What have people found to be most helpful on this site. i am currently falling big time with this and need help

Re: General Help 09 Aug 2020 20:40 #353526

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I have found these 2 resources to be the best by far:

The Battle of the Generation (ebook or softcover book). Download here: https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation.

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

These will help you change your attitude on this fight, so you won't feel like you're fighting a losing battle and trying to guilt yourself to win but deep down knowing you're going to give in.

Try some of each for two weeks and you will notice a huge difference. 
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation 
https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: 
https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

If you're only ready to try something small, check out an easier way to do self-talk here:
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain—Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Re: General Help 09 Aug 2020 22:31 #353527

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Also, participate on the forum, posting about your struggles and successes, as well as responding to other posts.  Take some time to read other members' "stories" 

Re: General Help 10 Aug 2020 05:55 #353543

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I have found these 2 resources to be the best by far:



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These will help you change your attitude on this fight, so you won't feel like you're fighting a losing battle and trying to guilt yourself to win but deep down knowing you're going to give in.



Try some of each for two weeks and you will notice a huge difference. 
I have not read 'The Battle of The Generation' but I have heard R' Shafiers lecture 'The Fight' and that is a game changer. Definitely am going to try reading the book and I highly recommend R' Shafier.
Your best teacher for success is your last mistake
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