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GUE wife support? 09 Dec 2009 22:45 #33658

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My wife has been very supportive, and she's very happy at the changes I have gone through since joining this forum.

Yet, it's not exactly easy for her.  It's especially hard because she feels at a loss for people to speak to.  She doesn't feel comfortable admitting to her friends, "Guess what, my husband was looking at p** on our computer."  Her usual support channels aren't really an option.

She read the letter to GUE wives, but I think it might be helpful for her to speak to someone about this.

What sort of support for wives is available here?

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Re: GUE wife support? 09 Dec 2009 23:02 #33676

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Lots of good links and info on this page.

You can call Elya on our hotline here. Him and his wife have saved many marriages and worked with both sides.

Have her also read this letter by a wife helped by Elya.

Have you heard of S-Anon? Google it. It is group support for the wives of addicts...

Make sure to show her lots of love and giving... She will be happy you are in recovery!

May Hashem be with you.

P.S. We're thinking of opening a board or forum for wives of addicts to give each other support. Would she post there?
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Re: GUE wife support? 10 Dec 2009 12:31 #33814

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Thanks, Guard.
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Re: GUE wife support? 10 Dec 2009 13:27 #33823

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Dont know if it would  help or hinder, but she's welcome to write or call me...
Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"
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Re: GUE wife support? 10 Dec 2009 15:19 #33868

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My wife is having a very hard time with it.  It would be great to have a forum for our wives on here.  I know my wife would join.  She is looking very hard to find help and can't find much and does not want to talk to people about it we know.

Eye, thanks for bringing this subject up.
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Re: GUE wife support? 10 Dec 2009 15:21 #33869

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What about a "Getting a wife to support" system i.e Shidduchim.Eh really bad joke sorry guys I had to put you through that.

-Yiddle
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