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Re: Dangers of SA 29 Mar 2018 05:45 #329072

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hi, i ,who am no expert either,as well as many of us here,feel that your original one-liner warning would be no deterent,but since it blew up the way it did and therefore you were forced to elaborate it became more of a tumult and someone reading all the fiery  posts  i could hear might feel a little intimidated ,now , but i dont know if it can be fully blamed on you, although the other side explained their side well too.
just want to say that i was impressed with your gevura in posting what you truly felt would be of benefit to addicts although it was going against whats popular(although not neccassarily true),and the gevura of ending with shalom (the other side also had a share in that),as well as this post. 
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Re: Dangers of SA 02 May 2018 22:42 #330605

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hashiveinu wrote on 19 Mar 2018 03:07:
ive never been part of an sa group but i have heard more than once about different things about sa which contradict what yiddishkeit stands for. someone once complained to me that he is part of a frum group and if anyone ever mentions anything about yiddishkeit or a vort about the parsha which might help, he is put down. they tell him that the only way sa can work is if yiddishkeit is seperated from recovery.
how can this be? we are born to believe that all things have a source in the torah, so if this method of recovery doesnt, then how can it be considered the right thing?
im not trying to knock the sa but maybe it doesnt have to be without torah and mussur. maybe for us yidden a modified version should be created...

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