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Being stuck with blame 28 Feb 2017 23:55 #307093

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One was involved in an accident and has broken bones and luckily stayed alive, after undergoing several surgeries and being hospitalized for months. The exiting day arrives he is dismissed from the hospital and being transferred to a great rehabilitation center where the doctors said that with intensive therapy and workouts he will have the great chance of getting back on his 2 feet and walking by himself.The 2 day in the rehabilitation center the norse came in with a huge smile on her face saying the lucky day arrived and we are going to start therapy today what will free you from the weelchair and being you again.To her surprise he wasn't exited what so ever, to her question what's going on? He replied I have little interest on reliving my pre accident life I feel that that will be an impossible dream, she asked why? He replied let me tell you how all this happened, I was driving down hill in a rainy weather and I got a text message from my employer , I took the phone in my hand and checked the message out & I started replying and I felt the car glitching and I didn't have full focus on road and suddenly the car crashed in to the tree at the end of the road.With wonder the therapist asked so what's the issue?He replied;I COULD NEVER BE CURED WHEN ALL STARTED BY ME HARMING MYSELF AND I'M 100 PERCENT GUILTYwhat would be your answer?

Re: Being stuck with blame 01 Mar 2017 00:05 #307094

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A: It looks like you got your punishment.
B: if God is giving you an opportunity to be healed grab it by the horns.
C: I blame the tree.
D: 100 percent guilt doesn't mean you also get to judge.
Last Edit: 01 Mar 2017 00:06 by GrowStrong.

Re: Being stuck with blame 01 Mar 2017 00:06 #307095

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Who plants trees on roads?
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Re: Being stuck with blame 01 Mar 2017 00:13 #307096

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This is not an issue I posted that I need help with.
I feel that for many people blameing themselves, that's their main obstacle on moving forward.
This is a mushal on how being guilty or not (that's a whole other conversation) our main focus has to me on moving ahead. 

Re: Being stuck with blame 01 Mar 2017 00:15 #307097

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Ok cool

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Re: Being stuck with blame 01 Mar 2017 00:54 #307103

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Interesting Moshel.
Nice idea.
Thanks for posting.

Re: Being stuck with blame 01 Mar 2017 07:19 #307128

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Chaim2009 wrote on 01 Mar 2017 00:13:
This is not an issue I posted that I need help with.
I feel that for many people blameing themselves, that's their main obstacle on moving forward.
This is a mushal on how being guilty or not (that's a whole other conversation) our main focus has to me on moving ahead. 

Yes.

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