Hello all, I am new here.
HOw does one rid himself of unwanted sexual fantasies? Does anyone have any good advise? It is nearly impossible for me to spend any time with my in laws, since after I do I spend the next few days fantasizing about my mother in law and sister in law. It is hard for me to be in their house, and even if I see them for a little bit elsewhere.
in the past, I have successfully abstained from being mz'l for over 2 years straight. Lately i haven't gone longer than a few months at most, since whenever I am doing well it gets stopped by the challenges I face spending a Shabbos by the in laws.
Simply telling myself that these are disgusting fantasys does not help me one bit. These are attractive women who I am enormously attracted to.
Can anyone help me with some advise?
