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Re: Help. Please 19 Apr 2016 13:55 #285226

shmirashachaim OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 436 Karma: 19	I need someone that I can't ask for the password whenever. I'll work on that today

Re: Help. Please 19 Apr 2016 13:56 #285227

shmirashachaim OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 436 Karma: 19	Not sure how I will be able to look at my wife

Re: Help. Please 19 Apr 2016 13:58 #285229

shmirashachaim OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 436 Karma: 19	Sitting in my car... Really down. Haven't Davened. Didn't show up for Seder. Still holding my phone and didn't even clean up. Can't move.

Re: Help. Please 19 Apr 2016 13:58 #285230

shmirashachaim OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 436 Karma: 19	Crying

Re: Help. Please 19 Apr 2016 14:00 #285231

gevura shebyesod
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my wife has the restrictions pw on my phone. She knows about my struggles.

Maybe you can ask her and just say that the rabbonim recommend or that you would feel more comfortable without the open access to temptation etc.

For a more comprehensive solution you can get in touch with TAG.

The main thing is that you got right up and are moving forward. KOMT!!

!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
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Re: Help. Please 19 Apr 2016 14:01 #285232

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8282 Karma: 427	shmirashachaim wrote: Crying You're among friends, we all been through this
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Re: Help. Please 19 Apr 2016 14:01 #285233

shmirashachaim OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 436 Karma: 19	Thank you for your support and care

Re: Help. Please 19 Apr 2016 14:03 #285234

shmirashachaim OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 436 Karma: 19	I wish I can just rip this taava out of me. No matter how much I learn about it and work on it.. It's too strong

Re: Help. Please 19 Apr 2016 14:09 #285236

shmirashachaim OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 436 Karma: 19	i love my wife. I want to do good in life. I want be a good Jew. I don't want to be a fake. I want to break free. I want this disease to dissipate but I know it's not easy. It's so hard. Please... I don't want this. I don't want to connected to things that break me and hurt me.

Re: Help. Please 19 Apr 2016 14:22 #285241

shmirashachaim OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 436 Karma: 19	K.. I'm getting out of my car. I will do what I have to do to win. I will get up and not let this defeat me. But am I expected to go through the day as if nothing happened? Act normal around my wife? In the past I said I wasnt feeling well and played low for the day. Not sure what to do.

Re: Help. Please 19 Apr 2016 14:25 #285242

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8282 Karma: 427	Great to hear you taking my advice Get out of the Car and into the Truck Tell your wife you found some new friends!
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Re: Help. Please 19 Apr 2016 14:33 #285244

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8282 Karma: 427	shmirashachaim wrote: K.. I'm getting out of my car. I will do what I have to do to win. I will get up and not let this defeat me. But am I expected to go through the day as if nothing happened? Act normal around my wife? In the past I said I wasnt feeling well and played low for the day. Not sure what to do. Did you email Cordnoy? I love the guy
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Re: Help. Please 19 Apr 2016 15:15 #285246

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I'm on the go.....

Send your phone number to thenewme613@hotmail.com, and I will call you.

Perhaps there are others who would also.

B'hatzlachah

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Re: Help. Please 19 Apr 2016 15:17 #285247

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markz wrote on 19 Apr 2016 14:33:

shmirashachaim wrote:

K.. I'm getting out of my car. I will do what I have to do to win. I will get up and not let this defeat me. But am I expected to go through the day as if nothing happened? Act normal around my wife? In the past I said I wasnt feeling well and played low for the day. Not sure what to do.

Did you email Cordnoy?
I love the guy

No, he didn't.
I love him too.....That has been and always will be the problem.

My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads: Mikvah Night - Page 1, Page 2, Page 3, Last Page

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Last Edit: 19 Apr 2016 15:17 by cordnoy.