cordnoy did NOT say most or probably any of this

Simon - youre in a challenging situation that if I was in your shoes I may just move my bed to the parlor, to save me time and p'haps money. Why not? sex 24hr non stop
Other people may have stronger will power than me, but if I was in college like yours, I could very likely land up doing just that

AM I CRAZY???

Firstly - yes

Secondly - allow me to explain
I have a job in a regular company paying in the range of $60k+ / yr, and BH I could soon easily get promoted to a salary of $100+ a year

This is without any college education zilch - and no college degree either



If I'd want any college degrees I would join a men's only college or get all my diplomas online

There may be one or two prestigious jobs I may miss for not actually attending a mixed gender campus - but...

Now, I have not done much research - I have some hearsay, and some speculation too, that the accepted norm in a campus is sexual acts, and one that desists from such is a rare case.

I'm here on gye to gain sobriety, and thank Gd I achieved that with unique tools as mentioned in my story

If you want to succeed, here's my advice - draft your unique recovery road

Picture the portrait of your true sobriety

If it's defined by leaving the campus, then it's something worth considering. If money and fame are more important and a life of marriage and affairs like tiger woods is the rainbow you're envisioning, then by all means...

My friend, the problem isnt the campus. I have been going to college for a long time and it's easy to avoid the goyim there even though maybe ask for my number and want to meet up at their house. This is a psychological issue that I feel I am dealing with; where I ENJOY meeting with prostitutes and that there is a certain thrill that comes out of doing such. That is my issue. This is my problem and it may be more complex than most people. IF I want pleasure, I can easily hook up with the cute, blonde, 22 year old girl with yoga pants in my class...that's not the problem.

Do you hear where I am getting at?

SimonConfused wrote on Unknown:

It sounds like regular sexaholism to me. As the White Book of SA puts it "We were addicted to the intrigue, the tease, the forbidden."

I mean absolutely no disrespect to anyone here when I say not everyone on GYE is a sexaholic. I don't know if you are either, that's something you'd have to decide for yourself. But, since not everyone is dealing with the same issue here, not everything that works for one person will necessarily work for another. If you want, you can find more information about SA in the last link in my signature.

And thinking that our issue is unique is exactly what feeds the addiction even further.

cordnoy wrote on Unknown:

In SA I have heard many times that we all suffer from chronic uniquness.

That is very true...I am just not sure if visiting a psychologist or going through the 12 step process would be more effective

SimonConfused wrote on Unknown:

Definitely do one.

Hi Simon

I won't give you any advice, as you have had plenty.

I just want to wish u success in your journey 

THANKS

SimonConfused wrote on 15 Feb 2016 07:48:


Absolutely

Posting every 94 days is unacceptable - You will be receiving a bill in the mail, and pay or the IRS will...

markz wrote on 16 Mar 2016 14:29:

Markz i never understand you? you talk in code alot.

No offence, your great!

Strength365 wrote on 16 Mar 2016 17:10:

You see mark, der oilam farshtey nisht ( that is the extent of my yiddish)

That was not teef nor code, I was taking about the great trucker mr 9494 that last posted like 94 days ago, which is bad news leaving us in the lurch so long, besides for his grievous of preferring Training to Trucking

markz wrote on 17 Mar 2016 01:22:

Teef is actually an English word. Check it up.