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Re: 12 Feb 2016 05:29 #277601

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Today's list:
Gratitude:
For being in a better place with my wife and family
For having the opportunity to connect to Hashem whenever I open a Gemara

Good stuff:
Had a good time on vacation, nice weekend coming up with lots of good stuff planned.

Goals:
Stay off GYE during work hours for the next 3 weeks, and focus on work more
Better time management to achieve better learning hours
Stay more focused in davening, at least 1st brocho of Shmone Esrei
Get onto a proper exercise schedule before I turn 60...or 50 for that matter, or...

Glitch:
Still self-obsessing too much. This led to goofing off during work today with escaping to GYE
Got frustrated with some of the kids behavior today, and let it show.

 
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Re: 10 Mar 2016 13:00 #280930

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Here is today's list

Gratitude to God:
1. for the ease of these tryin' times (sounds contradictory? i know)
2. for the contentness of my adult kids
3. for the ability to make a difference
4. for givin' me another chance
5. for my boss

Good stuff (victories) (this should be overcomin' specific challenges):
1. shuttin' my mouth when I could've answered wife
2. learned, although was rushed for time
3. mincha - two in a row
4. met with Rav and left upbeat
5. no youtube

Glitch
music gettin' to me

Goals (usually specific tasks; items that we can look back on and see that we've actually made progress; something actionable):
1. Rememberin' our mission here
2. Remainin' calm - no matter what is thrown my way
3. Exercise

Gazoo (as in stress)
1. work
2. life
3. learnin'
4. project

hatzlachah to all
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Re: 10 Mar 2016 13:41 #280940

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I just found this thread. Its really amazing. I think it may be another tool for me. gonna give it some thought. Thanks for opening it up for us. Will be doing some g thinking...

Re: 13 Apr 2016 23:47 #284518

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Here is today's list

Gratitude to God:
1. for the third blessing
2. for the positive bank account
3. for the ability to help others
4. for special intimacy
5. for some caring people in the school

Good stuff (victories) (this should be overcomin' specific challenges):
1. Not letting it get to me
2. Kept calm and said good stuff 
3. Met with a fellow 
4. working with child
5. no youtube

Glitch
Davanin' issues

Goals (usually specific tasks; items that we can look back on and see that we've actually made progress; something actionable):
1. Davanin'
2. Learnin' first
3. Eat less snack

Gazoo (as in stress)
1. life


hatzlachah to all
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G's 13 Apr 2016 23:53 #284519

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hey mr newoldnewoldnewme

You know why your reply title is Re:.....
missing "G"?

I found out the hard way that any title that has " (double quotes), when you reply to it, it deletes anything past the "

So do the great thing and delete the " (double quotes)
Simply change your 1st and last post Title to G's

You're the man (old young, whateva)!!
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Re: G's 14 Apr 2016 02:47 #284542

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Next time, I'll add Mark zee to my gratitude list for knowin' all this stuff.
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Re: G's 14 Apr 2016 02:47 #284543

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cordnoy wrote on 14 Apr 2016 02:47:
Next time, I'll add Mark zee to my gratitude list for knowin' all this stuff.

And for sharin' it with us.
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Re: G's 14 Apr 2016 10:27 #284567

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cordnoy wrote:
Next time, I'll add Mark zee to my gratitude list for knowin' all this stuff.

I'm grateful you're grateful 'bout me

G eneraly I prefer not to be on lists
G reat other truckers must be on your G too
G oogle is the amt of guys you'll have to mention
G uaranteed that my ideas make people say
G eeeeeeeeeeeeeee, but here's a new one
G ive mention rather to the few nGo's (not gooders)
G o make a shorter
G ye R' list
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Re: G's 14 Apr 2016 11:58 #284574

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There is a group I know (of about five) who post a new "G" list every day, or every other day. They claim that it works for them.
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Re: G's 14 Apr 2016 13:49 #284577

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Can gye give them access please to share the daily G's with us
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Re: G's 14 Apr 2016 16:03 #284588

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markz wrote on 14 Apr 2016 13:49:
Can gye give them access please to share the daily G's with us

They do share on gye.
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Re: G's 14 Apr 2016 17:00 #284598

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markz wrote on 14 Apr 2016 13:49:
Can gye give them access please to share the daily G's with us

Here is an example:

Grateful:


got out of work quickly


boss away again


off Facebook for a bit = more headspace 


had enough to last me without going to supermarket again


washed sheets on lunch break yesterday  so feels like it got done magically 





victory :


returned items to father


spoke my piece amongst hostile colleagues


chatted to newbie at work


didnt take laptop back so I can't use wifi at house overnight


moved clothes from lounge to my room to be folded


charged phone overnight


parked somewhere safe even though other space was closer 





goal:


make bed (as if for a guest) 


put in diary upcoming therapy sessions

Take out cash to pay for appointment

glitch 

fantasised/dwelled on issue

put myself down in conversation 

didn't deal with jury duty 
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Re: G's 14 Apr 2016 23:02 #284624

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And here is another....lookin' back at the day behind us....
 
Gratitudes: - had a good day at work today - good speaker on DC's call - watched a video for college and it was not triggering! - uh oh... getting desperate... I had a really good piece of salmon for lunch - had a few nice, healthy conversations with friends Victories: - I used the "I'm not being with you today" trick - and it worked! - I went through 1/4 of my huge stack of papers - I took the time to send a "nachas" email to a couple of parents - I didn't respond with annoyance to my mom - I'm taking the time to do this now Glitch: broke my diet...makes me feel out of control Goal: Finish my stack of papers before work tomorrow... fat chance though...
 
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Last Edit: 14 Apr 2016 23:03 by cordnoy.

Re: G's 14 Apr 2016 23:04 #284625

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And I never asked for that box.

Why can't we simply copy and paste any more?
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Re: G's 15 Apr 2016 03:49 #284661

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I love this thread. Here goes:

Gratitude:
Had quality time with son
Had enough money to pay some big bills
Sholom Bayis been good

Victories:
Made it to shul on time, despite little sleep
Completed stage 1 of a big job in work
Kashered the kitchen for Pesach

Glitches:
Snapped at the kids a few times
Chapped-a-Mincha in the worst possible way
A friend reached out with some bad news, didn't have any eitza for him.

Goals:
Work on the next step of recovery, as explained by Una
Stay positive with the kids
Complete next stage of job at work
Stay positive with extended family over the weekend
Catch up on sedarim commitments.
 
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