markz wrote:


Thats a truck I'd like to hitch a ride with!

What a great idea, it's like the GYE yellow pages, zei gebenched!

And of course I love your trucker wise cracks:

markz wrote:


Chazak V'emutz

i was doing pretty good until now but various circumstances led to me spending the meals this past shabbos with a certain girl (i'm a bachur) and then going on a full day trip with her yesterday, now there were other ppl there so it wasn't yichud and i didn't even speak to her (directly) the whole time, but it was kind of uncomfortable going to meron, tzfat, tiveria. with two ppl out of the six going being the only singles and of the opposite sex, so there we were both davening for a shidduch and it was kinda uncomfortable [was that a run-on sentence?]. but i survived. then last night i had a dream where i watched p**n and started mas******ing i didn't finish though, i woke up and stopped. so i'm still doing pretty good but i could really use some chizuk.
oh, and did i mention that i said tehilim at the mekomos hakedoshim?

HER camera is right in front of me as we speak and there are some good pics of me [not to mention HER] o0n it and i'm NOT going to touch it

How soon can you get the heck out of your situation? The sooner the better!

hi TehillimZuger,
are you out of the 'situation' yet?
if not, then it's time to rev dem enjins and put the petal to the metal
kibalti mayrabi mi'Bardichev sheyichyeh, that we don't look back, we just go forward, this is the NO HAND-WRINGING ZONE
turn up the speakers and let the Tehillim roll..

yeah. she's here now again.
keep the chizuk coming guys!

u really got me laughing ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
but she's blowdrying my sister's sheitel right now (she's very talented lol) and that would kind of upset some ppl here.
oops, she just asked for the computer, i'm off for some music.

This is NOT an ideal situation.

>

Why don't you come over and spend a few days with me...

Geshmock,

This is what I did.

The very second you get an urge to look at something, CLAP!

Clap your hands together. If the urge is still there, clap again. Harder.

Still there? Clap again. Still there? Clap!

Eventually, one of three things will happen:

The urge will pass. You win!

Someone will come into the room and say "What is all that noise? Are you okay?"
You will makeup some silly excuse for all that clapping, and you will be too embarrassed to continue sitting at the computer. You win!

Or, your hands will hurt so much from all that clapping, that you won't be able to use them for the aveirah..... .....and you win!

I'm up to 14 days, and with this technique, I know I'll get to 90

By the way, after the first few days, you won't feel that overwhelming urge to go look, as often as you do now. It will still be there, but it will be less intense and less often.

Also - go to a mikvah, preferably a COLD one. You can walk in slowly if you want to, but eventually force yourself to toivel completely into the cold mikvah. A cold mikvah has vast spiritual benefits, specifically related to this aveirah, that are too complex to explain in this forum. (Ask any mekubal, he'll tell you the same)

Try to stay under the water for a few seconds , making sure that no part of your body is touching the floor or walls.

Get yourself to a mikvah as often as possible, but at the very least every erev shabbos and yom tov. Natural lakes as well as the ocean are also kosher mikvaos.

You can do it! I believe in you!




(Oct 2011)

neshamaincharge wrote:


Thanks for bumping.
I try not to bump an old thread where I was the last poster.

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