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Re: For how long by now? 13 May 2013 01:37 #207129

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Mazel tov! That is a major major step on the journey. What happened? Did he understand? (btw even if he didn't, just telling it to a real person helps a lot)
Life’s a mountain. You just gotta keep climbing…

Re: For how long by now? 13 May 2013 20:41 #207151

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How did it go RT? Please tell us more. Don't leave us hanging...

Re: For how long by now? 20 May 2013 22:38 #207432

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Mazel Tov!!! Great Move!!!

and please do let us know how it went!
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I'm just a dude, another guy on this bus.
Have a great day, unless, of course, you made other plans. ~ obbormottel
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Re: For how long by now? 30 May 2013 00:17 #207949

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Hey guys.
Well. 1st of all, he understood it. and well, it was very... humiliating. I felt that from this couple words I said all my koach left me.
He still shakes my hand -.-
Somehow I felt the last shabbos. buuuh.
achar kach I opened a sefer and punkt it said, that you should use a nefila to grow in your avoydas hashem. I think i did it (grew). baruch haShem i could stop myself by "just" 2 times.
be well guys, hope you're okay.

Re: For how long by now? 30 May 2013 19:15 #208010

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(felt is a loshon nekiya for fell)

GREAT STUFF!
GETTING REAL IS THE ONLY WAY!!!

HATS TO YOU! (lecha)

oh, now i remember...
Lecha Lecha Hashem hagdula
ah ah vihagevura
vi hatif eres
vi ha netzach vi ha hod

LICHAAAAAAAAAAA AA
hA she ee em HaGDUUla
Hagedula Vi ha aa gi vura
Vi hatiferes vi hanetzach vi ha hod
vi hat tiferes vi hanetzach vi ha hod.

(from the CHEVRA 2)

BTW if any members GYE are from THE CHEVRA, YBC, MENUCHA TEK NOY, LEV TAHOR or is named Eli Gerstner or Yerachmiel Begun please PM me so I can get your autograph, and maybe we can work on an album together
(it might be a photo album)

Re: For how long by now? 09 Jun 2013 15:19 #208674

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mr. emunah wrote:

BTW if any members GYE are from THE CHEVRA, YBC, MENUCHA TEK NOY, LEV TAHOR or is named Eli Gerstner or Yerachmiel Begun please PM me so I can get your autograph, and maybe we can work on an album together
(it might be a photo album)

My name is Yerachmiel Gerstner, and Yossi Green rejected me twice, after which I went to Pinky W., he's not interested in my talent either. Can I help you with your photo album?

[pssssst, we can steal some ideas from [url=http://guardyoureyes.com/forum/23-Just-Having-Fun/11168-photo-album]this thread[/url]...]
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?
Last Edit: 09 Jun 2013 16:04 by TehillimZugger.

Re: For how long by now? 10 Jun 2013 21:20 #208764

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ok

Re: For how long by now? 22 Jul 2013 17:01 #212923

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Hello guys.
I am not sure how many days I have. Last time I fell was somewhere around the 1th of June I think. 'til today clean baruch hashem.
just in case, any1 was interested..
rt.

Re: For how long by now? 22 Jul 2013 17:39 #212925

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Hey RT long time no see! KUTGW!
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant


My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: For how long by now? 22 Jul 2013 21:02 #212959

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ditto, welcome back!!!

KOT!
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Re: For how long by now? 23 Jul 2013 00:52 #213025

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RT. wrote:

just in case, any1 was interested..
rt.


I'm interested. I like posts about people being clean way more than about how they fell.

Re: For how long by now? 28 Jul 2013 16:15 #213824

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Shkoach guys, for welcoming me back. and being interested

You know guys, just recently I heard a strange story...

Maybe you already know about it, i'll still write it down

So bekitzur, a certain frum girl in London (not sure, certainly in UK) went to the court claiming that her father raped her. And not only him, his friends as well. And she said it is already for 7 years and they torture her; she described everything in great detail. The advocates were able somehow to prove, that father was NOT guilty (I think she was even proven to be still a virgin, not sure).
now each normal person should ask: dear frum girl, miheihi teisi?? from where do you take such imaginations?
They found out. She was watching PORN. rape-videos.

AAH!!
There are no smiley which would express the feelings I have ... >.<

Re: For how long by now? 29 Jul 2013 20:51 #213985

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Hey RT.! Nice to know you are not counting the days like some folks do. I don't either, and it's been good today, b"H. Hey, you just stay away from here and be happy abt it, if that's good for you, man. Seeya whenever you pop back for a visit!
"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."

Re: For how long by now? 01 Sep 2013 17:30 #218067

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RT. wrote:
Shkoach guys, for welcoming me back. and being interested

You know guys, just recently I heard a strange story...

Maybe you already know about it, i'll still write it down

So bekitzur, a certain frum girl in London (not sure, certainly in UK) went to the court claiming that her father raped her. And not only him, his friends as well. And she said it is already for 7 years and they torture her; she described everything in great detail. The advocates were able somehow to prove, that father was NOT guilty (I think she was even proven to be still a virgin, not sure).
now each normal person should ask: dear frum girl, miheihi teisi?? from where do you take such imaginations?
They found out. She was watching PORN. rape-videos.

AAH!!
There are no smiley which would express the feelings I have ... >.<

My gosh! That's an awesome story! With an english accent, ah mechaye...
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?
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