Forum

Welcome, Guest

For how long by now?

(0 viewing)

A platform of recovery for Jews who find themselves struggling with addictions to pornography, masturbation or other sexual problems. Post anonymously about your struggles without fear of anyone finding out who you are. Ask questions, post answers and be inspired! Get tips and guidance from the experts who moderate this forum, as well as from fellow strugglers.

Reply Topic

New Topic

Page:
1
...
19
20
21
22
23
24
25
26

TOPIC: For how long by now? 9606 Views

Re: For how long by now? 15 Apr 2013 00:08 #205115

RT. OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 40 Karma: 3	Afraid of him asking when the last time was. So you'll ask, "and after shvues will be better?". well. good kashya. but i need to tell it to him on SOME point, so I decided, shvues will be the day. (after which I'll do it)

Re: For how long by now? 15 Apr 2013 00:44 #205117

dms1234 Current streak: 767 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1106 Karma: 49	figure i would join the party... Currently I am at 2 after having a very rough last week I noticed that as much as I fall during the week, I never fall on shabbos. Thought that was interesting, Anyone have any insights?
	I am happy to speak on the phone. Please email me at dms1234ongye@gmail.com My name is Daniel, I go to face to face meetings and I work the 12 steps with a sponsor.

Re: For how long by now? 15 Apr 2013 02:19 #205119

tocontrolmyself OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 104 Karma: 4	Maybe on shabbos your mind is off your fears or/and your relaxed.

Re: For how long by now? 15 Apr 2013 20:02 #205142

RT. OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 40 Karma: 3	Oh, hey you, TMC dude! how are you doin' ?

Re: For how long by now? 16 Apr 2013 17:33 #205194

Eye.nonymous OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2696 Karma: 15	Hi RT! --Elyah
	Visit me at Eye.nonymous official countAnd also check out Additional Tools for recovery

Re: For how long by now? 18 Apr 2013 16:27 #205418

RT.
OFFLINE
Senior Boarder
Posts: 40
Karma: 3

HellO.

Day 20. still.

felt some urge, left beis medresh. let's read a stikkle GYE-handbook.

Btw, lemayse, so what's so deal with this karma? I remember I asked this question, but I can't remember where it was...

Short Edit:
are you guys reading the stories here? some are really chazak.

guardyoureyes.com/articles/stories/item/rock-bottom?category_id=493

this one is actualy scary:

guardyoureyes.com/articles/stories/item/what-gye-did-for-me?category_id=11

what will be raboysay? even the girls. Oh my g.

Last Edit: 24 Apr 2013 20:15 by RT..

Re: For how long by now? 24 Apr 2013 20:13 #205879

RT. OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 40 Karma: 3	26 days. Some time passed. and I think, I dont want to share it with anybody ...

Re: For how long by now? 24 Apr 2013 20:43 #205887

Machshovo Tova OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1230 Karma: 26	whatever works for you (or does it?) Hatzlacha MT

Re: For how long by now? 24 Apr 2013 21:30 #205890

zvi OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 224 Karma: 11	RT. wrote: Afraid of him asking when the last time was. So you'll ask, "and after shvues will be better?". well. good kashya. but i need to tell it to him on SOME point, so I decided, shvues will be the day. (after which I'll do it) Tell him NOW. TODAY. If you keep delaying it, you'll keep pusing it off from shavuos, and you'll never do it.
	Life’s a mountain. You just gotta keep climbing…

Re: For how long by now? 06 May 2013 15:50 #206699

RT. OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 40 Karma: 3	38 days. Right now I am feeling pretty lusty :/ I feel I indeed HAVE TO SHARE THE PROBLEM with somebody in real life. It is so stupid...how comes it controls me -.-

Re: For how long by now? 06 May 2013 17:50 #206704

Pidaini
OFFLINE
Platinum Boarder
פדני מעושק אדם-מיצר הרע העושק את הבריות-רש"י
Posts: 2189
Karma: 107

As Nike says "JUST DO IT", don't wait!! why not go into shavuos with a new mindset (which you will probably get after leting it out)?

I heard a vort, that Moshe Rabeinu knew by night that Korach wasn't for real. how? because he told him "we will see in the morning" and if Korach really felt that his purpose on this world was to be Kohen Gadol, how could he have been maskim to sit idle and wait until the morning without doing anything??!! so Moshe new that it wasn't for real!

L'Inyaneinu, How can you wait until Shavuos to take a step that you know has to be taken?

Hatzlacha Rabah!!

Yankel | My Ladder | Talking to Hashem
I'm just a dude, another guy on this bus.

Have a great day, unless, of course, you made other plans. ~ obbormottel
"Nothing changes as long as everything stays the same" ~ Dov

Last Edit: 06 May 2013 17:51 by Pidaini.

Re: For how long by now? 09 May 2013 00:44 #206891

RT. OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 40 Karma: 3	Wow. shkoach for sharing. lemayse I fell. and not just once. the first time we had a battle. the next times not anymore... well, yea i will tell 'em. there are 3 guys to choose, not sure yet which one it 0should be. now since i dont have any clear days, it does not make any sense to wait (it never did..) you guys were right all the time... q.e.d. boom

Re: For how long by now? 09 May 2013 21:37 #206953

mr. emunah Current streak: 121 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1139 Karma: 43	tell the guy who you trust the most/or you look at as the most able to help

Re: For how long by now? 09 May 2013 23:53 #206974

zvi OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 224 Karma: 11	And choose fast- the longer you procrastinate, the more likely the yetzer will be able to persuade you not to tell.
	Life’s a mountain. You just gotta keep climbing…

Re: For how long by now? 13 May 2013 01:31 #207128

RT. OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 40 Karma: 3	Today, while learning with somebody on phone I suddenly had the following idea: "TODAY!". And well, yea, I did tell it to a friend. I asked Hashem to consider the busha i'll experience as me going through gehinnom. it kinda was. Hashem yerachem :'(