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90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less

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TOPIC: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 106853 Views

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 02 Aug 2023 20:31 #399412

yitzchokm Current streak: 412 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 678	Because the challenge is only there to make us grow.
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 03 Aug 2023 15:23 #399453

chaimoigen Current streak: 577 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1386 Karma: 137	Because I love myself too much to want to humiliate myself before myself.
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 03 Aug 2023 15:25 #399454

chaimoigen Current streak: 577 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1386 Karma: 137	Because I don’t want to let Him down. He’s counting on me to succeed in this. And I owe Him everything.
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 03 Aug 2023 16:44 #399455

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8279 Karma: 427	chaimoigen wrote on 03 Aug 2023 15:25: Because I don’t want to let Him down. He’s counting on me to succeed in this. And I owe Him everything. You exceeded the word count!!!!!! Please watch what you write, & where you look! (I kept this to 20 words :-))
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Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 03 Aug 2023 17:39 #399461

DeletedUser1281 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 448 Karma: 35	It keeps me asleep. Although, TBH, sometimes being awake is just too much.
	We get only one chance at life. This is not a rehearsal; it's the real thing. Father, help me live sober Today.

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 06 Oct 2023 03:09 #401950

alexander21 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 7 Karma: 0	Because if you act out it means you don't have control of yourself and that's a terrible thing

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 06 Oct 2023 04:54 #401955

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Alexander21 wrote on 06 Oct 2023 03:09:

Because if you act out it means you don't have control of yourself and that's a terrible thing

This is a great point! It's not fun to feel like junk, which is what we feel like when we feel that we can't control ourselves.

In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

If you're only ready to try something small, check out an easier way to do self-talk here:
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain—Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 17 Oct 2023 06:13 #402376

meirz OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 3 Karma: 1	Because this is the nisoyen Hashem gives me to challenge me to make me a better yid

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 17 Oct 2023 15:34 #402386

DeletedUser1281 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 448 Karma: 35	It gives me the illusion of intimacy and eliminates my desire to work for the real thing.
	We get only one chance at life. This is not a rehearsal; it's the real thing. Father, help me live sober Today.

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 05 Nov 2023 11:05 #403258

s613 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 15 Karma: 3	Because it's wrong.

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 22 Nov 2023 21:56 #403976

notezy OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 497 Karma: 12	It's Destroying you.
	"Excuses are the tools of incompetence" -My Friends Friend. "Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change" -Milton H. Erickson

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 03 Jan 2024 14:15 #406265

1-12steps OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 31	Missed out on a good night sleep, surfing for porn or mast*** to fantasies (14) It's a waste of time, the antithesis of "productivity" (9) It isn't who i really am, and definitely not who i identify as, when I'm embarrassed of my actions (19)
	Last Edit: 03 Jan 2024 14:16 by 1-12steps. Reason: Sentence structure, word count

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 19 Jan 2024 19:07 #407326

tryingmybest8 Current streak: 51 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 2 Karma: 0	Lets be clean!

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 23 Jan 2024 15:26 #407460

iyh2023 OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 239 Karma: 9	If the Messiah where to come right now, would you want to be doing what you're doing at that moment?
	Last Edit: 23 Jan 2024 21:46 by iyh2023.

Re: 90,000 Reasons To Say NO to acting out.... in 20 words or less 25 Jan 2024 23:48 #407609

parev OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 469	לא תנאף
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