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Re: Lonely but trying (trying but lonely) 19 Sep 2024 05:23 #421872

5678 NOW ONLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 45 Karma: 2	Hi I'm also at day 19, keep it up and keep going, let's finish it together.

Re: Lonely but trying (trying but lonely) 19 Sep 2024 12:35 #421881

DeletedUser7986 Current streak: 27 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 106 Karma: 4	BH we have made it to CHAI! 18 DAYS OF PURE HOLINESS Ok who am I kidding. Joking. BH 18 days clean of the bad stuff. I think that is a very good achievement. The truckin don't stop

Re: Lonely but trying (trying but lonely) 19 Sep 2024 13:30 #421888

Muttel Current streak: 223 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 499 Karma: 23	odyossefchai wrote on 19 Sep 2024 12:35: BH we have made it to CHAI! 18 DAYS OF PURE HOLINESS Ok who am I kidding. Joking. BH 18 days clean of the bad stuff. I think that is a very good achievement. The truckin don't stop I’d call it pure holiness… Keep it up brother, Muttel
	We're in this struggle together; feel free to reach out! Muttel15@gmail.com Feel free to call/text! (908) 251-9590 (google) Check out my thread here: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/413043-My-ENTIRE-story#413043

Re: Lonely but trying (trying but lonely) 20 Sep 2024 14:50 #421981

DeletedUser7986 Current streak: 27 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 106 Karma: 4	Good morning chevra! Hayom Yom Tisha Asar! 19 days of winning. Yesterday was very rough. Today is worse. Not specifically this inyan, but other areas of life. In the old days, I would go and 'destress' Not today though fellas, not today.

Re: Lonely but trying (trying but lonely) 22 Sep 2024 10:29 #422044

DeletedUser7986 Current streak: 27 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 106 Karma: 4	20 check 21 check. BH. No falls, bumps or spills. Having the chevra here means that I may not be as lonely now as I wrote in the topic!

Re: Lonely but trying (trying but lonely) 22 Sep 2024 12:14 #422055

amevakesh Current streak: 508 days NOW ONLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 253 Karma: 24	Rock on brother! You got this!
	Feel free to email me at amevakesh23@gmail.com

Re: Lonely but trying (trying but lonely) 23 Sep 2024 11:28 #422122

DeletedUser7986 Current streak: 27 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 106 Karma: 4	22 day check in. Happy to report 100% clean.

Re: Lonely but trying (trying but lonely) 23 Sep 2024 12:17 #422126

redfaced Current streak: 581 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1128 Karma: 55	I'm waiting for you to get rid of the "lonely" part of the thread title
	May you slide down the banister of happiness and get many splinters of success up your career Feel free to send me an owl, a howler, or even a Crumple-Horned Snorkack to Iamredfaced@gmail.com The Red Face

Re: Lonely but trying (trying but lonely) 23 Sep 2024 13:07 #422131

DeletedUser7986 Current streak: 27 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 106 Karma: 4	redfaced wrote on 23 Sep 2024 12:17: I'm waiting for you to get rid of the "lonely" part of the thread title Not sure if I can afford 200 years of therapy!!!

Re: Lonely but trying (trying but lonely) 23 Sep 2024 14:29 #422140

redfaced Current streak: 581 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1128 Karma: 55	odyossefchai wrote on 23 Sep 2024 13:07: redfaced wrote on 23 Sep 2024 12:17: I'm waiting for you to get rid of the "lonely" part of the thread title Not sure if I can afford 200 years of therapy!!! C'mon, 200 Years ?! We do ODAAT Today you aren't lonely , You have GYE
	May you slide down the banister of happiness and get many splinters of success up your career Feel free to send me an owl, a howler, or even a Crumple-Horned Snorkack to Iamredfaced@gmail.com The Red Face

Re: Lonely but trying (trying but lonely) 23 Sep 2024 15:41 #422152

DeletedUser7986 Current streak: 27 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 106 Karma: 4	odyossefchai wrote on 23 Sep 2024 11:28: 22 day check in. Happy to report 100% clean. Didn't someone once say, for every Jew a .22! Guns ablazin!

Re: Lonely but trying (trying but lonely) 23 Sep 2024 15:43 #422153

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odyossefchai wrote on 23 Sep 2024 15:41:

odyossefchai wrote on 23 Sep 2024 11:28:

22 day check in.
Happy to report 100% clean.

Didn't someone once say, for every Jew a .22!

Guns ablazin!

I didn't realize there were any fellow Kahanists on the forums!
(Well, I knew Redfaced was blowin' up Arabs in his spare time, but I didn't know there was anyone else.)

#OdKahaneChai

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Last Edit: 23 Sep 2024 15:44 by chosemyshem.

Re: Lonely but trying (trying but lonely) 23 Sep 2024 15:45 #422155

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odyossefchai wrote on 22 Sep 2024 10:29:

20 check
21 check.

BH. No falls, bumps or spills.

Having the chevra here means that I may not be as lonely now as I wrote in the topic!

Yes. This was a game-changer for me.
I’m always surrounded by people. But to be able to talk, ti connect, to be, with the special guys here…. Makes all the difference.

I think that loneliness often happens when you can’t share your interior landscape, when the shapes of your dreams and pain have nothing to connect to…

And then I got to know the Oilam…

OYCH - you’re a great addition- stick around, please!

Please feel free to reach out anytime at chaim.oigen@gmail.com

Re: Lonely but trying (trying but lonely) 23 Sep 2024 15:47 #422156

DeletedUser7986
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chosemyshem wrote on 23 Sep 2024 15:43:

odyossefchai wrote on 23 Sep 2024 15:41:

odyossefchai wrote on 23 Sep 2024 11:28:

22 day check in.
Happy to report 100% clean.

Didn't someone once say, for every Jew a .22!

Guns ablazin!

I didn't realize there were any fellow Kahanists on the forums!
(Well, I knew Redfaced was blowin' up Arabs in his spare time, but I didn't know there was anyone else.)

#OdKahaneChai

I didn't know there was anyone who WASN'T a Kahanist!

Re: Lonely but trying (trying but lonely) 23 Sep 2024 15:48 #422157

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chaimoigen wrote on 23 Sep 2024 15:45:

odyossefchai wrote on 22 Sep 2024 10:29:

20 check
21 check.

BH. No falls, bumps or spills.

Having the chevra here means that I may not be as lonely now as I wrote in the topic!

Not giving up on myself! I'm here for the long haul IYH. I need the support from the Oilam here and it means so much to me.
I've already shmoozed to some of the guys here and I met HHM (which I promised to talk more about)
So BH for all your help.