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Re: OivedElokim-I’ll never give up 26 Jul 2024 12:00 #417851

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Beautiful!
Ein Od Milvado + Bishvili Nivra Olam = Love
The simcha comes from the realization that we are inconsequential compared to Hashem, yet he cares about us more than anything else. This is the greatest and purest gift (better than the lottery), so naturally it would bring one the ultimate joy - when they recognize what it is that they have.

Have a wonderful Shabbos
Today is yesterday's tomorrow.
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It doesn't matter how big the number is, only that today it is going up by one.

A little about what I'm doing here: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/412971-I-Want-to-Help-Others

Re: OivedElokim-I’ll never give up 31 Jul 2024 08:03 #418168

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Day #45

Halfway to 90...

BH!

Have a blessed day, hope to have some time to post more tomorrow. Until then-stay positive!

Moshiach now!
OivedElokim
I am a bochur with a passion for meaning and truth, searching to remain clean and live a holy and fulfilling life.

If you are reading this-you have a friend in me.
Feel free to PM me and I'll share my offline contact information, so we can call and text. I'd be honored if you'd trust me with your story and promise to support you in any way I possibly can.
I've been on GYE for over 7 years. "I may walk slow, but I never walk back" (-Abraham Lincoln?).
(For the background and meaning of my username- see Tanya chapter 15).


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Re: OivedElokim-I’ll never give up 02 Aug 2024 18:51 #418370

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Day #47

Last few days have been pretty crazy, I'm running on three hours of sleep and I have a million more things to do. I figured that writing a medium length post might be a good way to unwind a bit, as writing always has a calming effect on me. Thanks for being my dumping grounds

For the next month I have a Chinuch position, and it really got me thinking about the need to see the potential in the young people I will be interacting with in the coming weeks. I think I already have the right mindset and have begun to implement it, but I think it would be helpful for me to articulate it here, both for myself and perhaps for others as well.

Honestly I'm too tired to really elaborate, so I will just share the following quote from one of my favorite seforim which I have quoted on here at least once-The Sefer Hayom Yom, a collection of Chassidic aphorisms compiled by the Lubavitcher Rebbe, ztz"l. This is the entry for 17 Iyar:

ל"ג בָּעוֹמֶר שְׁנַת תּר"ד — לְעֶרֶךְ — סִפֵּר הַצֶּמַח צֶדֶק תּוֹרַת הַבַּעַל שֵׁם טוֹב: עֶס שְׁטעֶהט כִּי תִהְיוּ אַתֶּם אֶרֶץ חֵפֶץ אָמַר ה' צְבָאוֹת. אָט אַזוֹי וִוי דִי גרעֶסטעֶ חֲכָמִים וועֶלעֶן אֵייבִּיג נִיט דעֶרגֵיין דִי גְרוֹיסעֶ, טִבְעִיּוּת'דִיגעֶ אוֹצָרוֹת, וועֶלכעֶ הַשֵּׁם יִתְבָּרֵךְ האָט טוֹבֵעַ געֶוועֶן בָּאָרֶץ, אַז הַכֹּל הָיָה מִן הֶעָפָר, אָט אַזוֹי קעֶן קֵיינעֶר נִיט דעֶרְגֵיין דִי גְרוֹיסעֶ אוֹצָרוֹת וואָס לִיגעֶן אִין אִידעֶן, וואָס זֵיי זַיינעֶן דעֶם אוֹיבּעֶרשְׁטעֶנס בָּרוּךְ הוּא אֶרֶץ חֵפֶץ. וְסִיֵּם הַבַּעַל שֵׁם טוֹב: אִיך וִויל מאַכעֶן פוּן אִידעֶן, אַז זֵיי זאָלעֶן געֶבּעֶן דעֶם יְבוּל, וואָס דעֶם אוֹיבּעֶרשְׁטעֶנס בָּרוּךְ הוּא אַ אֶרֶץ חֵפֶץ קעֶן געֶבּעֶן.

On Lag Baomer,around the year 5604 (1844), the Tzemach Tzedek relayed the following teaching of the Baal Shem Tov. “It is written, ‘For you shall be a cherished land, declares the G‑d of Hosts.’ Just as the wisest minds will never be able to grasp the vast natural treasures that G-d has hidden in the earth, to grasp that ‘everything came from dust, so, too, no one can appreciate the treasures that lie hidden within Jews, who are G‑d’s cherished land.”

The Baal Shem Tov concluded: “I want to bring Jews to the point that they will yield the kind of harvest that G‑d’s ‘cherished land’ can yield.”

Wishing you all a day in which you tap into your limitless, G-d given portential!
OivedElokim

I am a bochur with a passion for meaning and truth, searching to remain clean and live a holy and fulfilling life.

If you are reading this-you have a friend in me.
Feel free to PM me and I'll share my offline contact information, so we can call and text. I'd be honored if you'd trust me with your story and promise to support you in any way I possibly can.
I've been on GYE for over 7 years. "I may walk slow, but I never walk back" (-Abraham Lincoln?).
(For the background and meaning of my username- see Tanya chapter 15).


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Re: OivedElokim-I’ll never give up 05 Aug 2024 11:53 #418471

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Day #50

I cannot believe I made it so far, so easily. After years of endless struggle, I put my foot down and said "enough". 

In Tanya chapter 13, the Baal Ha'Tanya explains the phrase of Chazal regarding the Yetzer Hara "Zeh v'zeh shoftan" regarding a Beinoni. I will quote his words and then try to summarize:

ובזה יובן לשון מאמרז"ל בינונים זה וזה שופטן [פי' יצר טוב ויצר הרע] דכתיב כי יעמוד לימין אביון להושיע משופטי נפשו ולא אמרו זה וזה מושלים ח"ו כי כשיש איזו שליטה וממשלה ליצר הרע בעיר קטנה אפי' לפי שעה קלה נקרא רשע באותה שעה אלא היצה"ר אינו רק עד"מ כמו שופט ודיין האומר דעתו במשפט ואעפ"כ יכול להיות שלא יהיה פסק הלכה כך למעשה מפני שיש עוד שופט ודיין החולק עליו וצריך להכריע ביניהם והלכה כדברי המכריע כך היצה"ר אומר דעתו בחלל השמאלי שבלב ומהלב עולה למוח להרהר בו ומיד חולק עליו השופט השני שהוא הנפש האלהית שבמוח המתפשט בחלל הימני שבלב מקום משכן היצר טוב והלכה כדברי המכריע הוא הקב"ה העוזרו להיצר טוב כמאמר רז"ל אלמלא הקב"ה עוזרו אין יכול לו והעזר היא ההארה שמאיר אור ה' על נפש האלהית להיות לה יתרון ושליטה על סכלות הכסיל ויצה"ר כיתרון האור מן החושך כנ"ל.

In short-the Yetzer Tov and Yetzer Hara are like two judges who disagree. Hashem is like the third judge who tips the scale in the right direction. If we truly want to overcome our Yetzer Hara, we simply need to turn to Hashem to help us out and he definitely will.

Wishing you a day in which your personal verdict results in happiness, purity and holiness,
OivedElokim
I am a bochur with a passion for meaning and truth, searching to remain clean and live a holy and fulfilling life.

If you are reading this-you have a friend in me.
Feel free to PM me and I'll share my offline contact information, so we can call and text. I'd be honored if you'd trust me with your story and promise to support you in any way I possibly can.
I've been on GYE for over 7 years. "I may walk slow, but I never walk back" (-Abraham Lincoln?).
(For the background and meaning of my username- see Tanya chapter 15).


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Re: OivedElokim-I’ll never give up 16 Aug 2024 11:07 #419293

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Day #61

Good morning friends. I am sorry for my lengthy absence-I've gotten super busy with good things, BH. 

I am incredibly grateful to Hashem for helping me stay clean for this long. I did not think I could get this far. It hasn't even really been much of a struggle, tbh. I hope it continues to be this smooth. But if not-I'm ready to do some heavy lifting. I'm never going back to the self-absorbed world of porn and masturbation. I find it revolting and degrading, and I will do whatever it takes to keep to my commitments.

A few weeks ago I started writing a post in honor of getting 101 Karmas-101 is a special number for me and is very connected to my username. I hope to finish writing that post sometime today.

Wishing you all a day full of joy, purpose and purity,
OivedElokim
I am a bochur with a passion for meaning and truth, searching to remain clean and live a holy and fulfilling life.

If you are reading this-you have a friend in me.
Feel free to PM me and I'll share my offline contact information, so we can call and text. I'd be honored if you'd trust me with your story and promise to support you in any way I possibly can.
I've been on GYE for over 7 years. "I may walk slow, but I never walk back" (-Abraham Lincoln?).
(For the background and meaning of my username- see Tanya chapter 15).


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Re: OivedElokim-I’ll never give up 16 Aug 2024 13:36 #419298

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oivedelokim wrote on 16 Aug 2024 11:07:
Day #61

A few weeks ago I started writing a post in honor of getting 101 Karmas-101 is a special number for me and is very connected to my username. I hope to finish writing that post sometime today.

So I shouldn't raise you to 102?
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation 
https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: 
https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

If you're only ready to try something small, check out an easier way to do self-talk here:
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain—Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Re: OivedElokim-I’ll never give up 18 Aug 2024 09:28 #419337

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Captain wrote on 16 Aug 2024 13:36:

oivedelokim wrote on 16 Aug 2024 11:07:
Day #61

A few weeks ago I started writing a post in honor of getting 101 Karmas-101 is a special number for me and is very connected to my username. I hope to finish writing that post sometime today.

So I shouldn't raise you to 102?

No worries, man

בכלל מאתיים-מנה...
I am a bochur with a passion for meaning and truth, searching to remain clean and live a holy and fulfilling life.

If you are reading this-you have a friend in me.
Feel free to PM me and I'll share my offline contact information, so we can call and text. I'd be honored if you'd trust me with your story and promise to support you in any way I possibly can.
I've been on GYE for over 7 years. "I may walk slow, but I never walk back" (-Abraham Lincoln?).
(For the background and meaning of my username- see Tanya chapter 15).


My current thread 

Re: OivedElokim-I’ll never give up 18 Aug 2024 09:32 #419338

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Day #63

Good morning, dear friends!

I have a lot to say but I don't have much time. Feeling so grateful and blessed for my 63 clean days and praying for many more...

#TYH

All the best,
OivedElokim
I am a bochur with a passion for meaning and truth, searching to remain clean and live a holy and fulfilling life.

If you are reading this-you have a friend in me.
Feel free to PM me and I'll share my offline contact information, so we can call and text. I'd be honored if you'd trust me with your story and promise to support you in any way I possibly can.
I've been on GYE for over 7 years. "I may walk slow, but I never walk back" (-Abraham Lincoln?).
(For the background and meaning of my username- see Tanya chapter 15).


My current thread 

Re: OivedElokim-I’ll never give up 25 Aug 2024 11:18 #420043

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Day #70

BH!!!!
I am a bochur with a passion for meaning and truth, searching to remain clean and live a holy and fulfilling life.

If you are reading this-you have a friend in me.
Feel free to PM me and I'll share my offline contact information, so we can call and text. I'd be honored if you'd trust me with your story and promise to support you in any way I possibly can.
I've been on GYE for over 7 years. "I may walk slow, but I never walk back" (-Abraham Lincoln?).
(For the background and meaning of my username- see Tanya chapter 15).


My current thread 

Re: OivedElokim-I’ll never give up 26 Aug 2024 11:39 #420103

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Day #71

BH!

Sorry I haven’t been able to post much lately, been super busy. Hopefully one of these days I’ll have a few minutes to write something. Until then-have a wonderful and clean day!

OivedElohim
I am a bochur with a passion for meaning and truth, searching to remain clean and live a holy and fulfilling life.

If you are reading this-you have a friend in me.
Feel free to PM me and I'll share my offline contact information, so we can call and text. I'd be honored if you'd trust me with your story and promise to support you in any way I possibly can.
I've been on GYE for over 7 years. "I may walk slow, but I never walk back" (-Abraham Lincoln?).
(For the background and meaning of my username- see Tanya chapter 15).


My current thread 

Re: OivedElokim-I’ll never give up 29 Aug 2024 09:26 #420322

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Day #74

הודו לה׳ כי טוב כי לעולם חסדו!
I am a bochur with a passion for meaning and truth, searching to remain clean and live a holy and fulfilling life.

If you are reading this-you have a friend in me.
Feel free to PM me and I'll share my offline contact information, so we can call and text. I'd be honored if you'd trust me with your story and promise to support you in any way I possibly can.
I've been on GYE for over 7 years. "I may walk slow, but I never walk back" (-Abraham Lincoln?).
(For the background and meaning of my username- see Tanya chapter 15).


My current thread 

Re: OivedElokim-I’ll never give up 30 Aug 2024 21:04 #420452

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Day #75

Wishing you all a wonderful Shabbos!
I am a bochur with a passion for meaning and truth, searching to remain clean and live a holy and fulfilling life.

If you are reading this-you have a friend in me.
Feel free to PM me and I'll share my offline contact information, so we can call and text. I'd be honored if you'd trust me with your story and promise to support you in any way I possibly can.
I've been on GYE for over 7 years. "I may walk slow, but I never walk back" (-Abraham Lincoln?).
(For the background and meaning of my username- see Tanya chapter 15).


My current thread 

Re: OivedElokim-I’ll never give up 01 Sep 2024 13:01 #420485

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Bh!!!
I am a bochur with a passion for meaning and truth, searching to remain clean and live a holy and fulfilling life.

If you are reading this-you have a friend in me.
Feel free to PM me and I'll share my offline contact information, so we can call and text. I'd be honored if you'd trust me with your story and promise to support you in any way I possibly can.
I've been on GYE for over 7 years. "I may walk slow, but I never walk back" (-Abraham Lincoln?).
(For the background and meaning of my username- see Tanya chapter 15).


My current thread 

Re: OivedElokim-I’ll never give up 01 Sep 2024 13:20 #420487

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wow amazing keep up the great work!! As we all know, it's no simple feat

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avifl wrote on 01 Sep 2024 13:20:
wow amazing keep up the great work!! As we all know, it's no simple feat

Definitely not a simple feat
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