Forum

Welcome, Guest

Struggla's Struggle of the 90 day challenge!

(0 viewing)

Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!

Reply Topic

New Topic

Page:
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
...
10

TOPIC: Struggla's Struggle of the 90 day challenge! 10835 Views

Re: Struggla's Struggle of the 90 day challenge! 31 Dec 2009 08:55 #40389

Sturggle Current streak: 178 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1706 Karma: 1	Hmm..., I know the feeling. B'hatzlacha...
	Last Edit: by Bodallas77.

Re: Struggla's Struggle of the 90 day challenge! 31 Dec 2009 12:10 #40436

imtrying25
Current streak: 16 days
OFFLINE
Platinum Boarder
Posts: 3010
Karma: 2

struggla21 wrote on 31 Dec 2009 01:11:

Thank you for all your comments and responds!

Well i did end up going on that date. Afterwards I guess i started to convince myself I can be what she wants to me to be. But slowly I'm starting to realize I think I am wrong. I talked to my Rebbe and he told me straight up that she is not the girl for me. I was very upset at him, but somehow deep inside I knew he is right. I'll have to tell her somehow, building up the courage for that. I hate this part...

Yes its hard. Try to think of your Rebbi when you do it. it will make it a little easier. But please be careful to make sure no feelings are hurt. Not that im doubting you, but it doesnt hurt to be extra careful.

Last Edit: by livelyotter85.

Re: Struggla's Struggle of the 90 day challenge! 01 Jan 2010 02:10 #40838

yona18 Current streak: 4500 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 364	Hey Struggla, You still in NY? And what's up?
	Last Edit: by Yeshivastruggle.

Re: Struggla's Struggle of the 90 day challenge! 05 Jan 2010 05:50 #42147

Struggla21 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	Yea bro, still in NY. i'm doing alright, How bout you?
	Last Edit: by raskalnikov.

Re: Struggla's Struggle of the 90 day challenge! 05 Jan 2010 05:51 #42149

Struggla21 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	Question to everyone: Do you tell someone you are dating that you were/are and addict? If so, when should you tell them?
	Last Edit: by optimisticsparrow68.

Re: Struggla's Struggle of the 90 day challenge! 05 Jan 2010 05:57 #42151

habib613

been discussed many times on gye.

the basic gist: R' twerski says u have to tell.
the only person i know about that got engaged while involved in gye is letakain, and she told.
worked out fine

see:
rehab-my-site.com/guardureyes/forum/index.php?topic=1170.0
rehab-my-site.com/guardureyes/forum/index.php?topic=1111.0
rehab-my-site.com/guardureyes/forum/index.php?topic=1300.0
rehab-my-site.com/guardureyes/forum/index.php?topic=1259.0
rehab-my-site.com/guardureyes/forum/index.php?topic=1444.0

hatzlacha!

Last Edit: by serenefox39.

Re: Struggla's Struggle of the 90 day challenge! 05 Jan 2010 10:01 #42249

imtrying25 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3010 Karma: 2	Struggla your back. Wow. I was getting a bit nervous!
	Last Edit: by vibrantgiraffe79.

Re: Struggla's Struggle of the 90 day challenge! 06 Jan 2010 02:42 #42602

yona18 Current streak: 4500 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 364	Hey struggla, we missed you. How you doing?
	Last Edit: by joyfuljougaur03.

Re: Struggla's Struggle of the 90 day challenge! 13 Jan 2010 05:13 #45162

BecomeHoly Current streak: 28 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 262 Karma: 0	Come back! we misssssssss you! ??? Oh... and please do update us :-) And you're nearly halfway to 90! KUTGW!
	Last Edit: by .

Re: Struggla's Struggle of the 90 day challenge! 15 Jan 2010 06:37 #45913

Struggla21 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	40 days! Woot, woot! Guys, thank you for all the chizuk, it has helped tremendosly!! (now if only i knew how to spell lol...) Just a lil update, soo far soooo good! i've been keeping myself busy, B"H, learning lots more and focusing on my schooling. As long as my mind is somewhere else, i'm fine
	Last Edit: by .

Re: Struggla's Struggle of the 90 day challenge! 15 Jan 2010 18:37 #46048

silentbattle Current streak: 1628 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3734 Karma: 15	Glad to hear about your continued success! KOT!
	Last Edit: by .

Re: Struggla's Struggle of the 90 day challenge! 21 Jan 2010 18:43 #47545

imtrying25 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3010 Karma: 2	struggla21 wrote on 15 Jan 2010 06:37: 40 days! Woot, woot! Guys, thank you for all the chizuk, it has helped tremendosly!! (now if only i knew how to spell lol...) Just a lil update, soo far soooo good! i've been keeping myself busy, B"H, learning lots more and focusing on my schooling. As long as my mind is somewhere else, i'm fine Keep on rockin bro!!! 40?? Thats awesome!!!!
	Last Edit: by .

Re: Struggla's Struggle of the 90 day challenge! 21 Jan 2010 20:22 #47572

Struggla21 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Karma: 0	I fell last night. Somehow i'm not depressed about it or upset or mad at myself. Weird feeling, but good. Here we go again...
	Last Edit: by .

Re: Struggla's Struggle of the 90 day challenge! 21 Jan 2010 22:35 #47613

imtrying25 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3010 Karma: 2	Dont let yourself down. The reason why you probaly didnt feel bad was because of the stress release. It doesnt mean your not getting places. The best tactic we have is too brush ourselves off and pick ourselves up and continue fighting!!! Dont let that yh have his way. He wants you to fall and stay down. Get up. Dont punch him back. just ignore him!!! KEEP ON ROLLIN BRO. YOULL GET THERE!!
	Last Edit: by .

Re: Struggla's Struggle of the 90 day challenge! 22 Jan 2010 00:51 #47675

silentbattle Current streak: 1628 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3734 Karma: 15	IT - it sounds like he's already moving forward. one day at a time - because every day, even one day, is valuable.
	Last Edit: by .