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Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 04 Nov 2022 16:15 #387255

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chizuk613613 wrote on 04 Nov 2022 12:37:
If there would be way to help people make sure they've got accountability when they enter stage of life they'll be using internet in some way shape or form that would be amazing. Don't know though how to do on such a mass scale. Not just doing something like webchaver though. What's the shmirah if ones in place where need to use someone else's computer etc, not having their own device with them 

Would save people from coming onto needing this site in the first place. 

That would be cool… but I still think there will be a need for gye… we’re all so curious and the world is going crazy with this shimutz… like what does it take for young people to see the worst of the worst by mistake and than  he’s dying to see more… like the y. H. Is huge and we don’t need to describe it we’re all to experience with him… but bh we have an amazing organization fighting back and helping thousands but it’s not enough… it’s just gonna get worse ( I’m scared for my kid’s) and of course you have to try to protect urself and kids and try to be as sheltered as possible but today it’s almost impossible to be fully sheltered so the only atzah is that every body should know if you slipped in to this and you feel you can’t control than there’s major help!! H’ should help this organization and ganz koalas yisrol with much hatzlachah!!!
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

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Last Edit: 04 Nov 2022 18:03 by geshmak!.

Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 07 Nov 2022 05:08 #387352

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Can gye makes poster that we can print and hang up around town? The one i see isn’t too informative. 

Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 10 Nov 2022 04:04 #387519

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Bh I see since I post abt helping more guys get in to gye I started to look at the number of members and I see it growing every day today it’s holding by 13,936!! Chaverah let’s get it to 14,000- let’s send out emails to people we know are struggling in this area ( you can give gye a email address and they send good adds to get people on) or if you know a friend or bucher that can use chizuk on this topic… don’t be shy tell him I heard of nice organization calls gye I checked it out it’s cool or don’t need to say u checked out you can ask did you hear of it? Is it good? Etc. 
in other words if u know someone that needs the help… HELP him!!  let’s not be selfish we know abt this amazing site so many don’t or know but aren’t on it… let’s  showH’ we care!! And if it’s hard to for you to go over or do what you could to help someone become a member then  just think of the zichus ull have forever if he changes he’s bad addiction to lust he will be a different person beruchnis and bgashmies… you helped him he’s ( future) wife and kids grandkids and so on… can’t wait for the day to post that I see gye is up to 14,000 members!!
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

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Last Edit: 10 Nov 2022 04:09 by geshmak!.

Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 10 Nov 2022 18:53 #387553

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Did anyone at GYE try to advertise in the mainstream frum magazines like Hamodia, MIshpacha etc.? 
I wonder if there is a way to advetise without being too revealing so that people that are not in this situation should not get any ideas. 
I think this is a big barrier that we need to figure out who to reach out to the public without openly talking about taboo subjects. 

Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 10 Nov 2022 23:31 #387563

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chancy wrote on 10 Nov 2022 18:53:
Did anyone at GYE try to advertise in the mainstream frum magazines like Hamodia, MIshpacha etc.? 
I wonder if there is a way to advetise without being too revealing so that people that are not in this situation should not get any ideas. 
I think this is a big barrier that we need to figure out who to reach out to the public without openly talking about taboo subjects. 

There were advertisements in every major Jewish publication over tishrei

Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 11 Nov 2022 01:41 #387579

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13940!! 4 more yidden get helped bhy!
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

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Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 11 Nov 2022 08:46 #387602

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For every guy signing up, there's another 10 guys who say "Gye? What's that?" 
I'm sick of the Un-scientific approach of today's medical and social environment. 
we will never heal and become a better society unless we realize that all people are addicts. Any thing we do that we aren't interested in is "addiction" and medicine doesn't fix addictions. 

Pain causes addiction and medicine cant fix pain. 

Unless we heal our pain, and become truama conscious so as not to cause others pain, we will never be living in a functioning human society.

Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 11 Nov 2022 17:51 #387617

To be moisif of the chashivus of this site, as I heard of ר"ל another incident with someone respected being caught doing terrible things, who knows if these people could've saved themselves with an ananamous forum like this.

There are people here, respected in the community in all different ways, and it can be really hard to open up to someone the person knows  

Would be good if was hotline as well for people to call as well. There's places such as eretz yisrael, one wouldn't be able to publicize a website  

Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 13 Nov 2022 00:53 #387628

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chizuk613613 wrote on 11 Nov 2022 17:51:
To be moisif of the chashivus of this site, as I heard of ר"ל another incident with someone respected being caught doing terrible things, who knows if these people could've saved themselves with an ananamous forum like this.

There are people here, respected in the community in all different ways, and it can be really hard to open up to someone the person knows  

Would be good if was hotline as well for people to call as well. There's places such as eretz yisrael, one wouldn't be able to publicize a website  

Maskim all the way!! 

btw they do have a hotline…
but I wish there can be a hotline that a person can call in 24/6 (gotta ask rabunim abt shabbos if it’s bekuach nefushes) and talk to someone live and get real chizuk from smart experience people on the spot! I know it will cost a ton of money and it will be hard to find right guys to to pick up … but it would save thousands! Like when someone is abt to fall he ain’t opening gye and reading articles or watching videos of chizuk but if he could just pick up phone and get the right message and clear instructions how to over come he’s nisyun it would be a huge help for so many… but again I don’t think such a thing would be possible but I wish… maybe if I would’ve won last week’s power ball I would sponsor such a project 
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

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Last Edit: 13 Nov 2022 01:04 by geshmak!.

Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 13 Nov 2022 21:26 #387653

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Really? I didn’t see it. I would love to see a picture of that. I’m just very curious how such an advertisement is written without being too revealing but just enough. 

Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 14 Nov 2022 02:45 #387676

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13950!!! Another 10 yidden making the right start to get closer to H’!! #Gye going strong!
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

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Last Edit: 14 Nov 2022 02:46 by geshmak!.

Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 16 Nov 2022 14:32 #387792

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I feel like GYE should have a "kosher" website, with only the educational resources, meant for people only partailly struggling, who have no need to see all the intense discussions on the forum. Any thoughts?
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Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 16 Nov 2022 14:47 #387794

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Goldfish wrote on 16 Nov 2022 14:32:
I feel like GYE should have a "kosher" website, with only the educational resources, meant for people only partailly struggling, who have no need to see all the intense discussions on the forum. Any thoughts?

Maskim!!

but in a way so many guys that need real help don’t get the real help cause so many find the real help after they post their story and than get pm from amazing people that really help them( like it’s all a platform to find the guys that needs help and get him it) so you think there should be 2 different sites? But then who will go were? What’s your plan it sounds good so let’s just work out the details 
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

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Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 16 Nov 2022 14:50 #387798

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Agav this forum idea… is brilliant! I love it! I wonder who’s idea it was( problem a godel byisrel) like its so smart how to find the  people they need help and give it yo them… besides all the chizuk that goes on here!! H’ KEEP GYE GREAT!!!!!!
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

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Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 18 Nov 2022 04:03 #387921

copy pasted from my thread "my story, being honest for once"
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BTW I know this thread gets lots of views so just putting this out there - I am a huge fan of Rabbi Eli Portal's "Rolling With The Punches" podcast where he interviews people who have gone through adversity. Would LOVE to hear someone from GYE give an interview on how they overcame their lust addiction and became a healthy functioning and successful person in this aspect and how it affected their life before and after breaking free (Maybe HHM? Nudge, Nudge?). 

Just listened to his latest podcast of an anonymous interviewee who at 16 years old found out (kind of by mistake) that he was adopted as an infant. 

These interviews give so much chizuk to so many people, and it could be a big help for people who are struggling, and can also help a lot of people get onto GYE. 

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