Once again I am a novice but if I can just say that Shlomo brings up a very good point.
Women generally don't just jump into people's arms unless one is some celeberty. If on that business trip suddenly women jumped upon you its highly probable that there is some kind of relationship that existed prior to that trip. Unless one lodged in a house of prostitution in which case you need to stick out your wallet before they jump. And so perhaps thinikng about the tirggers would help.

As a side note just a personal story that me the luster experienced. I used to work at a local coffee shop often. One of the barista's there started flirting with me even telling me I was cute. And yes I have a desire for her as well. I try to avoid that store not to bump into her lest something bad come out of frequenting that store. And if were in a hotel with her I shutter to think about what I would do. For lusters like me its all about avoiding triggers before lust hits.

There are zaide's on this site!?

Sorry for not updating sooner, BH I am back to base and back to my tremendous loving wife and kid.

It is complicated to explain on a forum, but woman don't just throw themselves on me, but they do tend to start the process which once started It can take minutes and the most desirable thrill of power and boost of confidence for me to get the ball rolling.

When far away on a business trip and having these options, I am a midget next to a giant ! And having been a big sinner before my marriage, all these thrilling feelings come back..

I so badly do not want to fall but how can I protect myself.

People on here suggest I speak to a local rav who is familiar with these things, has anyone on here ever had such a rav in Yerushalaim ?