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Tcholent Party! 07 Apr 2013 17:24 #204405

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The new zman around the corner... I'm wondering if there would be any interest to form a ''weekend-group''(On the forum!). Speaking to many yeshiva-guys myself included (yes, i do speak to myself:) ) it seems that most falls occur from Thursday night until mozte shabbs. Being that Internet access is restricted in yeshivas.
Even for non-yeshiva guys, there may be some weekend-opportunists , that would be welcome to join.
You would have to update once a week (against the law?-) sharing thoughts and how the week went. I think it would be a major chizuk boost!

Thursday-night tcholent will be sponsored by ... (still available)

If you have any other ideas, please share
Last Edit: 07 Apr 2013 22:24 by Avrom.

Re: Tcholent Party! 07 Apr 2013 19:57 #204416

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i was planning on writing on my WOH thread every week (most weeks) but if there's cholent then i'll do it here bl"n.
Last Edit: 07 Apr 2013 19:58 by inastruggle.

Re: Tcholent Party! 07 Apr 2013 21:23 #204421

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sounds like a good idea!! (son't forget that you are in yerushalayim though)
how about making a specific time for a chat room?
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Re: Tcholent Party! 07 Apr 2013 22:23 #204427

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Pidaini wrote:

how about making a specific time for a chat room?


Good idea, i think that could be step 2. Lets first focus on forming a group be'h - well take it from there and let the chevra decide.

Re: Tcholent Party! 08 Apr 2013 08:16 #204459

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I'm joining too. I go to public school though, so the experience is a bit different.

Re: Tcholent Party! 08 Apr 2013 13:53 #204466

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Great! We are all in the same boat and i'm sure well have lots to share..

Re: Tcholent Party! 08 Apr 2013 23:15 #204555

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Thursday night is always the hardest night. I think it's because the seven sefiros are connected with the seven days of the week and Thursday night - Friday is Yesod.
The Blind Beggar is a character in Rebbe Nachman's story of the Seven Beggars.
If I view a woman as an object, I am powerless over lust, but I don't have to look.
I can guard my eyes.
I want to guard my eyes.
I do guard my eyes.
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Re: Tcholent Party! 08 Apr 2013 23:33 #204565

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I always thought that Thursday is the hardest because we are stressed out from the whole week and are sleep deprived by then.
Roy in the SA White Book noted that we frequently prayed and it did not work...because the best we could muster was begging G-d to "Please take it away, so I will not have to give it up!

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Re: Tcholent Party! 09 Apr 2013 00:04 #204581

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ummmm
let's leave kabbalah to the kabbalists
PLEASE
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Re: Tcholent Party! 09 Apr 2013 00:20 #204590

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I hear that Thursday night in Kabul it's quite a party. They drink alcohol-free Woodford.
Roy in the SA White Book noted that we frequently prayed and it did not work...because the best we could muster was begging G-d to "Please take it away, so I will not have to give it up!

No amount of sobriety can cure the insanity -ChaimCharlie

The emmes hurts but fake chizzuk will hurt more -Bards

Remember, best block, no be there - Mr. Miyagi

Re: Tcholent Party! 09 Apr 2013 00:29 #204596

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Re: Tcholent Party! 09 Apr 2013 02:32 #204614

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A tzenter! A tzenter!


by the way seems like well also have kabbalah-shiur - for that you need at least 7 guys that represent the seven sfiras...


(there might be stira here )
Last Edit: 09 Apr 2013 02:33 by Avrom.

Re: Tcholent Party! 09 Apr 2013 03:03 #204617

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I'm in. Koidem for this week, l'maiseh it's not mistabber that i'll ahve internet next week.
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Re: Tcholent Party! 09 Apr 2013 03:12 #204618

Thursday nights was like, I've been so good the whole week, let relax with a movie or ...., and if I stay up late well, I can sleep it off Friday night.

Motzei Shabbos, well after that long Shabbos afternoon shluff I'm not tired, so I'll stay up late guess what doing!!!
We are not fighting the YH as a process to get through in order to be able to get back to normal life; the fight wih the YH is the essence of our existence - Hopeing

Re: Tcholent Party! 09 Apr 2013 11:41 #204645

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Avrom wrote:
A tzenter! A tzenter!


by the way seems like well also have kabbalah-shiur - for that you need at least 7 guys that represent the seven sfiras...


(there might be stira here )


There are ten sefiros. The 7 of Sefiras Haomer and 3 more of CHaBaD. That's why Rashbi needed ten people for the Idra Zuta, one for each sefira.
Here endeth the first shiur.
The Blind Beggar is a character in Rebbe Nachman's story of the Seven Beggars.
If I view a woman as an object, I am powerless over lust, but I don't have to look.
I can guard my eyes.
I want to guard my eyes.
I do guard my eyes.
Why do I say these four lines?
Last Edit: 09 Apr 2013 11:42 by Blind Beggar.
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