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Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 20 Sep 2014 21:52 #239982

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That's weird, using Polish teeth to speak English
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Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 21 Sep 2014 16:08 #240040

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don't worry
its Hungarian teeth with polish polish
when going forward gets tough, its merely a sign that you are going uphill, just give more gas
put your sobriety first; before your wife, before your kids, before your avodas HaTorah (except for the 3 that are יעבור ואל יהרג) Without sobriety you won't have any of those things!

Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 23 Sep 2014 16:29 #240232

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i am thinking of keeping my driver cap on this year for the tefilos
maybe if shmiechel to hashem, he will shmiechel back to me
when going forward gets tough, its merely a sign that you are going uphill, just give more gas
put your sobriety first; before your wife, before your kids, before your avodas HaTorah (except for the 3 that are יעבור ואל יהרג) Without sobriety you won't have any of those things!

Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 23 Sep 2014 16:33 #240235

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He will shmeichel at you regardless; but it doesn't hurt to shmeichel; it's good for you, and for others around.
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Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 23 Sep 2014 16:33 #240236

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If you see people in the shul smiling to you, you can know they are all GYE guys.
Will you be wearing the english one for shacharis and the yissish one for mussaf or vice versa?

Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 23 Sep 2014 19:43 #240259

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i think the english is perfect for the unsanneh tokef
and the yiddish one might suit musaf
as the yiddish one has a cigar
which b4 musaf we ask vesigaar besoton levaal yastuneinu
when going forward gets tough, its merely a sign that you are going uphill, just give more gas
put your sobriety first; before your wife, before your kids, before your avodas HaTorah (except for the 3 that are יעבור ואל יהרג) Without sobriety you won't have any of those things!

Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 24 Sep 2014 19:47 #240337

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ksiveh vachasimeh tova
for all kllal yisroel
especial for all my freinds here at gye
they help me out so much thru the year in the time of need
may hashem give you all a year full of good blessings
a holy year, sheffa brocho vehatzlocho
when going forward gets tough, its merely a sign that you are going uphill, just give more gas
put your sobriety first; before your wife, before your kids, before your avodas HaTorah (except for the 3 that are יעבור ואל יהרג) Without sobriety you won't have any of those things!

Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 24 Sep 2014 19:54 #240340

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I will be laughin' by v'sigar b'satan
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Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 29 Sep 2014 20:25 #240507

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my shviger gave me on rosh hashono some simmonim
and in there was, you better believe it, some "black eye beans"
i thought that that might be a sign from hashem
that thru the yomim noroim we can fix up those black beans
when going forward gets tough, its merely a sign that you are going uphill, just give more gas
put your sobriety first; before your wife, before your kids, before your avodas HaTorah (except for the 3 that are יעבור ואל יהרג) Without sobriety you won't have any of those things!

Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 04 Dec 2014 22:42 #244625

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long time not been here
i am currently swimming in the yiddishe site
as its now under construction so i took a glimpse here to check what my old freinds are doin
when going forward gets tough, its merely a sign that you are going uphill, just give more gas
put your sobriety first; before your wife, before your kids, before your avodas HaTorah (except for the 3 that are יעבור ואל יהרג) Without sobriety you won't have any of those things!

Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 19 Dec 2014 02:19 #245419

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we played a game called "pass the parcel"
where a ball of newspaper full of wrapped goodies is passed around, and when the music stops you are allowed to try to tear out a goodie
but while the happy music plays nobody gets any goodies
only when the music stops only then you have the opportunity to grab a goodie
same here when its dull, no happy music, thats when you have the opportunity to grow and gain leverage
when going forward gets tough, its merely a sign that you are going uphill, just give more gas
put your sobriety first; before your wife, before your kids, before your avodas HaTorah (except for the 3 that are יעבור ואל יהרג) Without sobriety you won't have any of those things!

Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 06 Jan 2015 21:31 #246690

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i lately had an interesting thought, i wonder if anyone has some scope to it
are we supposed to love hashem with unconditional love, being our life good or bad
or because we know that whatever comes from hashem (which is everything) is purely good, therefore we love him for being so good to us
or maybe its a combi, that there has to be unconditional love in any case, but because we know that everything is good, so therefore our love to him is even greater, but thats not the reason for the love
when going forward gets tough, its merely a sign that you are going uphill, just give more gas
put your sobriety first; before your wife, before your kids, before your avodas HaTorah (except for the 3 that are יעבור ואל יהרג) Without sobriety you won't have any of those things!

Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 06 Jan 2015 21:43 #246691

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Thanks.

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Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 06 Jan 2015 21:53 #246696

Shmeichel wrote:
i lately had an interesting thought, i wonder if anyone has some scope to it
are we supposed to love hashem with unconditional love, being our life good or bad
or because we know that whatever comes from hashem (which is everything) is purely good, therefore we love him for being so good to us
or maybe its a combi, that there has to be unconditional love in any case, but because we know that everything is good, so therefore our love to him is even greater, but thats not the reason for the love


See Mesilas Yesharim chapter 19. He explains that people on a simple level should love Hashem because all He does is actually good even if we do not see it. But those on a higher level should leave their ego out of it and love Hashem unconditionally.

Re: :) Shmeichel's Shmeichel :) 08 Jan 2015 04:57 #246808

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thanks
a very clear answer
but for us kleine mentchelech
as we know that the wife is a mirror of our behavior to hashem
if we want to be able to give unconditional love to our well deserved wife
we ought to give it to hashem
so it will mirror back
does that make any sense?
when going forward gets tough, its merely a sign that you are going uphill, just give more gas
put your sobriety first; before your wife, before your kids, before your avodas HaTorah (except for the 3 that are יעבור ואל יהרג) Without sobriety you won't have any of those things!
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