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Re: Im about to FALL!! 24 Sep 2009 08:01 #20062

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7Up wrote on 24 Sep 2009 07:58:

I cant give you my number, but you can definitely PM or email whenever you need.

And Uri will be calling as soon as he can...

I'm sorry I had to limit it to men, but I think you understand some of us men need limits.
Thanks for the PM offer.
Re Uri, I can't speak to anyone right now. If I start talking, it will all flow out again. I have to get it together and make it through my work day.

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Re: Im about to FALL!! 24 Sep 2009 08:07 #20063

7yipol Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder YES HE CAN! Posts: 4686 Karma: 12	I'm sorry I had to limit it to men, but I think you understand some of us men need limits. Thanks for the PM offer. Of course you need that gvul! Here if you need. Actually; here if you dont need also!
	Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM" Last Edit: 24 Sep 2009 10:04 by Breakawaynow.

Re: Im about to FALL!! 24 Sep 2009 09:08 #20066

jerusalemsexaddict	Momo im here for you man. Let me know when I can call. -uri
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Re: Im about to FALL!! 24 Sep 2009 09:51 #20075

Momo Current streak: 6 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1288 Karma: 3	7Up, thanks for SOS-ing Uri. I just called him. I'm feeling a bit better than before.
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Re: Im about to FALL!! 24 Sep 2009 13:47 #20159

the.guard Current streak: 805 days OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 6438 Karma: 138	First, pray to HaShem. I did that, and it didn't really help. I'm feeling a bit better than before.
	Webmaster of www.guardyoureyes.org - Maintaining Moral Purity in Today's World. We’re here on a quest ; it’s really all a test. Just do your best and G-d will do the rest. Last Edit: by egold.

Re: Im about to FALL!! 24 Sep 2009 13:52 #20163

jerusalemsexaddict	Guard you are brilliant. I didnt even think about that. Momo,is it a coincedence that I got released from work today so early? Is it coincedence that Yackov Shwartz was on for the first time in a while just in time to see your SOS? HUG! Hashem loves you very much,my man!
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Re: Im about to FALL!! 24 Sep 2009 14:04 #20169

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Now I think I get it.

Guard, I had no idea what you were doing. I thought it was an incomplete post and I was waiting for you to finish writing. Then Uri came and helped explain.

I think you mean that HaShem answered my prayer by sending me Yaakov and Uri. That is deep. I thought HaShem wasn't helping me since I didn't feel better after my short prayer, but He was planning something even bigger for me.

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Re: Im about to FALL!! 24 Sep 2009 14:07 #20173

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Momo wrote on 24 Sep 2009 14:04:

Right. He sent a helicopter to the drowning man instead of a wooden log.

Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"

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Re: Im about to FALL!! 24 Sep 2009 14:25 #20182

me3 Current streak: 97 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1229 Karma: 9	Well we all know Guard is deep Right off the deep end.
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Re: Im about to FALL!! 24 Sep 2009 14:46 #20193

7yipol Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder YES HE CAN! Posts: 4686 Karma: 12	Me3 LOL!
	Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM" Last Edit: by df.

Re: Im about to FALL!! 24 Sep 2009 15:37 #20211

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Hashem! Look at your Holy Kinderlach!

If this isn't convincing enough that we are all yours then I don't know what is!

Satan, This message is for you! Your End Is Near! Just Give Up! like you Menuval tell us all the time. Why don't you Practice what you preach! & Just Give Up!

Or maybe like Reb Guard said the other day "Hashem is just Enjoying this Avodah of ours, even thou he hides from us"

But then come the Hugs over at Uri's Place (Feeling the Hug's) & only a Blind Man will fail to see Hashem appearing right in our faces.

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Re: Im about to FALL!! 25 Sep 2009 12:49 #20449

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On The Road wrote on 23 Sep 2009 02:15:

True intimacy I have found takes work, and is at times a little scary. Rarely as intense as what one might imagine. But its stable wamr amd predictable.

Sorry that I go back to a previous subject, but I believe it is very relevant.

R' Chaim Wosner writes in his sefer Reai Chaim about this problem, although he does not elaborate too much. His point is basically "stop staring at the girl in the bank and you will see how your interest in your wife will come back".

One of the main problems which we face is the build up of hormones which drive us crazy sometimes, and once married you have a legal outlet, but you should keep your attention focused on THIS subject.

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Re: Im about to FALL!! 25 Sep 2009 13:19 #20459

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G38 wrote on 25 Sep 2009 12:49:

R' Chaim Wosner writes in his sefer Reai Chaim about this problem, although he does not elaborate too much. His point is basically "stop staring at the girl in the bank and you will see how your interest in your wife will come back".

One of the main problems which we face is the build up of hormones which drive us crazy sometimes, and once married you have a legal outlet, but you should keep your attention focused on THIS subject.

The Garden of Peace, which I recommend in any event (I'm almost done reading it for the second time), specifically discusses just how destructive wandering eyes (even short of pornography) is for the marital relationship (intimate and otherwise).

Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'!

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Re: Im about to FALL!! 30 Sep 2009 21:44 #21173

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G38 wrote on 25 Sep 2009 12:49:

On The Road wrote on 23 Sep 2009 02:15:

True intimacy I have found takes work, and is at times a little scary. Rarely as intense as what one might imagine. But its stable warm and predictable.

One of the main problems which we face is the build up of hormones which drive us crazy sometimes, and once married you have a legal outlet, but you should keep your attention focused on THIS subject.

Just wanted to share with you that the day that I stop running away from lust because it is very, very dangerous for me and go back to trying to avoid it primarily because it is ossur, is the day I'd probably c"v pick it right up again. And that would likely be the end of my reality as my family and I know it.
I am sure my Eternal Best Friend wants me to stay alive and sane. He really, really likes me, you know. Hope I'm being clear.
Thanks,
-Dov

"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."

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Re: Im about to FALL!! 30 Sep 2009 21:47 #21176

jerusalemsexaddict	Clear as can be. You say it like it is,Dov. And you always make me smile Also,im happy that i understood your post. thats not always so easy for me :-[
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