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Hello, dear GYE! Please say THANK YOU to the founder and to the sponsors of GYE. I am very thankful to your holy team. Kol a kavod! I reached 90 days on the 1st attempt, BH. It was not hard. Now I am 137 days clean from m'zl and watching p-n. According to GYE criteria cle...

Dear Yaakov, I know it's been a while. But, I have had to wait until now to tell you what has changed my life so very very much. There are lots of little things on the site that have helped a ton. Mostly, the people. More ways to be involved with others, communicate wit...

I am SO happy I found your site! I already printed out the "Dear Bochur" booklet for my son, but it was so very powerful for me, too! Yashar koach to the author! I have made a donation and would like to help in any way I can (not so much financially, but I work I have ...

I'm a religious Muslim who, unfortunately, fell into this addiction. I found your website while searching for web filters, and I have to say, it is very beneficial to me, even as a non-Jew. The atheistic, materialistic times we live in are truly saddening; these 'secular...

Guys - here's why I appreciate the forum and YOU!When I started on the holy GYE forum more than half a year ago, I asked the following question: "I've been wondering if people with mild Aspergers are more vulnerable to the lure of pornography"I quoted from "Asperger Syndr...

I finally seriously started reading your literature a couple of days ago. Just reading the Handbook has been a huge help, together with internal changes from me, of course. Everything you write is spot on, just the solutions I needed, and the knowledge of where I am, what my challenges are, and where they stem from. Thank you very much! Sam.

Your website has done more for me and my marriage than countless hours and dollars of therapy. Thank you, thank you, thank you!                                                                                                   "neshamaincharge" _______________________________   I just wanted to thank you guys in GYE for the wonderful handbook and the work you do.  I have tried to stop the cycle of lust by pure willpower and never took the handbook seriously. I'm sure you can imagine how it went. Ever since I've started to utilize the handbook I feel like I can say NO to my Y"H. Thank you.                                                                                                                   "Sam K." _______________________________   You are doing a GREAT service to the frum community. Unfortunately, now I don't have money to donate but I am with you in spirit. Kol HaKavod!                                                                                                                        "K.T"

I've printed out the GYE handbook and Attitude handbook, and I've been working my way through them. I have to say that they are utterly brilliant. My favorite thing about them is that they provide me with so many different TOOLS to fighting the addiction. I really used to feel ILL-EQUIPPED in dealing with the dreaded urge, and all I'd be able to tell myself was things like 'come on, just fight it' or 'try harder', without really having any idea of HOW to effectively and creatively work around the problem. Kol Hakavod for providing this service!

Well, it's about time! I've been perusing these forums for a while, and really benefiting from them as well- but I kept pushing off registration... Now that I've taken the jump, I'm kicking myself for not doing it sooner! Just reading through the posts and...

I got an anonymous e-mail about this site and I've been lurking around for about a month now (thank you anonymous yid for e-mailing me!). I figure it's finally time I post a bit about my experiences. I just made it to level 3 in the 90 day journey. I'm 14 days clean! That...

Ok, I have a problem and I'm finally admitting it. I am a 'good Jewish boy' - married, learn every day, I am makpid about davening, halachah etc. etc. except that I look at porn on the net. I have prayed to HaShem many many times to help me overcome this - but I still fee...

Rebbe of Thousands Dear Yesod Oylam, I am a Rov, Posek, Magid Shiur and Mechaber Sfarim. I have thousands of talmidim. I have been unsuccessfully battling this problem for at least 40 years. I read thoroughly the GYE handbook and would like to make the author my Rebbe."K'...

Hello Guard, First of all, let me wish you a very happy new year. May be it a great one for everybody on GYE. You have helped me so much in the past two years, and I am very grateful for all the support and guidance that you have given, and continue to give me. I know tha...

It's 81 days now and my life has completely changed. I am more happy, energized and connected to Hashem then ever. Shivati eilacha vatirpa'eini ("I beseeched you and you healed me" - Tehillim). My great doctor is GYE. And the best part of my journey is that it has been so...

I was addicted for twelve years, always looking out and wondering who can help me. On Sunday, December 31, 2009 while waiting for my wife to come out of a store, I was reading the news on VIN when I came across an article called The Roving Eye. As I was reading the commen...

I am very happily married with B"H a house full of children. I have been suffering from a lust addiction for decades, since I was a teenager. I have had my ups and downs. I even looked into joining a 12-Step SA group, but my Yetzer Hara got the better of me convincing m...

I've been acting out and looking at inappropriate images since the age of 12-13. With a computer in my room, the internet and its poison filled my heart and mind at a very young age. I was a top Bachur, and I was sure marriage would solve the problem, but it didn't. I had...