The Library

Try to get out of going, if possible.

• If not, make a plan in advance.
• Schedule how long you have to be there, and stick to it.
• Set an alarm to remind you when to leave.
• Prepare an excuse to leave in advance.
• Give yourself a pep-talk before going.
• Look at yourself in the mirror and tell your eyes, "today, we won't stray!"
• Bring a sefer or a book to read instead of "mingling".
• Avoid socializing with the opposite gender as much as possible
• Sit facing away from the opposite gender.