I have been spending a lot of time on the site and felt maybe I was neglecting some things that I need to do for parnasa. But in truth, were I not spending the time here, I'd be spending double the amount of time on p**n. I feel so remorseful for the times I told my good and honest wife that I was 'stuck at work' 'in the middle of something' 'coming soon', when I was really feeding my own selfishness.
If I were 21 again, I would have hoped to join a forum like GYE and save myself many years of pain and heartache.