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Many people were pogem their bris since they were young and no longer remember their state of mind before they started.
Most people nowadays are controlled by their subconscious. Even conscious acts are strongly tainted by their subconscious.
This enslaves a person, strongly limiting his abilities.
Again someone who has never been out of these klipos (impure husks) can not associate with this. Through meditation one can start to feel this.
Spilling seed makes this much worse. A person's emotions are thrown totally out of balance.
People who are pogem their bris often have a hard time controlling their temper, they are subject to bouts of sadness and depression, and they lose their self confidence.