After facing millions of moments of indecision with multiple options in front of me for the past 16 years - being involved in program and recovery and marriage and raising children and paying bills and city life and Judaism etc - I finally internalized the phrase that helps me a lot while I'm making decisions:
"Just do it, don't over-chew it, & smile right through it."
This way I don't have to think too much while I'm making a decision, and for sure I can keep my spirits positive and my thoughts positive regardless of whatever action I take. Almost all of my choices are indeed productive choices. I, just like everybody, tend to beat myself up for not choosing 'good enough.' This phrase really helps keep me positive as I'm choosing & living out my life and watching it unfold.